1. He lets you hear those three little words…
Ok, so they’re not that little. Saying “I love you” has huge significance for many women, and men too for that matter. If your man tells you often how much he cares about you, then consider yourself fortunate. Even though you know he loves you, it is a great sign that he is willing to reassure you by saying it aloud.
2. He shows you how much you mean to him…
Sure he can say it, but if he doesn’t SHOW you just how much he cares about you, then what he says means close to nothing. I know you’ve heard it before, but actions speak louder than words.
3. He tries to meet your needs…
Do you have a burning desire for cotton candy ice cream at 3 in the morning? Ok, he doesn’t need to meet THAT need, however give your man bonus points if he makes it happen. The kind of needs I am talking about are the little things that make you feel secure and happy. Whether it’s a daily phone call or some alone time, if you both try to accommodate one another’s requests it’s a sure sign things will work out.
4. He tries to see your side of things…
He really may NOT understand why you need to have the same conversation multiple times, or buy the $400 pair of turquoise pumps, but if he puts his best effort into TRYING to understand, then he truly cares about you.
5. He considers your opinion…
A sign that your man is “the one” is if he asks for and values your opinion on things. When your guy asks for your opinion on anything from what entree to order, to what stocks to buy, you know he holds your input in high regard. Making key decisions together builds a solid foundation for you relationship.
6. He is proud of you…
Does he constantly brag about you to his friends and family? Most likely he is not trying to boast; he is just really happy for you and wants to celebrate your success. Soak up it up and be sure to recognize his accomplishments as well.
7. He protects you…
This is a fine line, because the last thing that works in a relationship is one of the parties being overbearing and controlling; however it is important that your man steps up and watches out for your well-being.
8. He smiles when he is with you…
Don’t they say laughter is the best medicine? Well, it is also a key indicator that your partner will be around for the long run. Many people rely on humor in life to get them through the hard times. It is indicative that you two “vibe” well, besides don’t you want to have FUN with your life partner?
9. He wants to support you and your goals…
This is a toughie, but you know you have a “keeper” when your significant other is genuinely interested in helping you attain your goals. Why is this so tricky for people? Because often insecurities we have surface when out partner is successful and many fear being “dumped.” If your man is grown up enough to want you to be successful, then he is confident and secure in your relationship, and will be more likely to be there in the long haul.
10. He is willing to meet you half way…
So you want to paint the walls “sand dune” and he wants “red dragon,” compromise is the only way you both will be able to feel satisfied when your opinions differ. This is huge, because most people want it their way, on their time. If you and your man have mastered this balancing act, then a life together is a more realistic.
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