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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-1219</link>
		<dc:creator>Love Guru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 20:59:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That makes it more complex for sure. You don&#039;t want to shut him out totally. You just need a little time to work this out in your head and set your emotions aside. You can still love someone but don&#039;t have to be with them. You need to think about what is going to be best for you and your baby. Give him a little time to think about the mess he just created and be adult about your actions on how you are handling this situation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That makes it more complex for sure. You don&#8217;t want to shut him out totally. You just need a little time to work this out in your head and set your emotions aside. You can still love someone but don&#8217;t have to be with them. You need to think about what is going to be best for you and your baby. Give him a little time to think about the mess he just created and be adult about your actions on how you are handling this situation.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by chunky monkey</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-1218</link>
		<dc:creator>chunky monkey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 20:50:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And I&#039;m pregnant. Should I still talk to him after I leave just cuz of the baby? Or do I just shut him out? I really love him and I&#039;m scared if I don&#039;t stop talking to him I&#039;m just going to be continuously hurt.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And I&#8217;m pregnant. Should I still talk to him after I leave just cuz of the baby? Or do I just shut him out? I really love him and I&#8217;m scared if I don&#8217;t stop talking to him I&#8217;m just going to be continuously hurt.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-1216</link>
		<dc:creator>Love Guru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 20:34:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First of all do not feel like you are at fault at all in this mess. How can he say it is not his fault that he pulled out his penis and had unprotected sex with another girl and got her pregnant. Sounds like he has developed a track record of this type of behavior. The first thing you need to do is stop blaming yourself and break up with this guy immediately before you send the wrong message to him that it is okay to be doing this to women. Do not text or call him no matter how sad you might be feeling. Let him call you and you can decide whether you want to talk to him and work things out. If you call him then you are just putting yourself more out there for more relationship abuse.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First of all do not feel like you are at fault at all in this mess. How can he say it is not his fault that he pulled out his penis and had unprotected sex with another girl and got her pregnant. Sounds like he has developed a track record of this type of behavior. The first thing you need to do is stop blaming yourself and break up with this guy immediately before you send the wrong message to him that it is okay to be doing this to women. Do not text or call him no matter how sad you might be feeling. Let him call you and you can decide whether you want to talk to him and work things out. If you call him then you are just putting yourself more out there for more relationship abuse.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by chunky monkey</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-1215</link>
		<dc:creator>chunky monkey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 20:23:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I got an email from a girl I&#039;ve only met once. She told me to call her so I did. She told me that my bf of almost a year cheated on me while I was out of town with one of my best friends and that she went to the doctor this morning to get an abortion. She was pregnant with twins. 6 weeks. So I told my bf I know and he told me it wasn&#039;t his fault and that he loves me more than anything else. I&#039;m so hurt that he didn&#039;t tell me &#039;cuz i had to hear it from someone I hardly know and I don&#039;t know what I want to do. He has texted his ex and told her how he misses her and how he wishes he could help her with her sexual needs and he sent pics of &quot;himself&quot; if you get my meaning to someone he doesn&#039;t even know that he met on the internet. Now this. I feel so hurt and betrayed. I feel like I&#039;m not worth anything at all and that other women are so much better than me. What do I do? I love him so much but I feel like he doesn&#039;t love me or want me around. If he did he wouldn&#039;t be hurting me like this. What do I do?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got an email from a girl I&#8217;ve only met once. She told me to call her so I did. She told me that my bf of almost a year cheated on me while I was out of town with one of my best friends and that she went to the doctor this morning to get an abortion. She was pregnant with twins. 6 weeks. So I told my bf I know and he told me it wasn&#8217;t his fault and that he loves me more than anything else. I&#8217;m so hurt that he didn&#8217;t tell me &#8216;cuz i had to hear it from someone I hardly know and I don&#8217;t know what I want to do. He has texted his ex and told her how he misses her and how he wishes he could help her with her sexual needs and he sent pics of &#8220;himself&#8221; if you get my meaning to someone he doesn&#8217;t even know that he met on the internet. Now this. I feel so hurt and betrayed. I feel like I&#8217;m not worth anything at all and that other women are so much better than me. What do I do? I love him so much but I feel like he doesn&#8217;t love me or want me around. If he did he wouldn&#8217;t be hurting me like this. What do I do?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ashley Madison Review (AshleyMadison.com) by Thomas</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/ashley-madison/comment-page-1#comment-1213</link>
		<dc:creator>Thomas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 02:50:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have spent money on this site too...and came up empty over and over...BUT...finally after maybe a year of contacting women selectively...don&#039;t contact the ones with unbelievable profiles or pics...I met a very cool married woman who lives close to me. We&#039;ve been seeing each other for close to 6 months now...her hubby travels during the week...perfect.  She treats me like a king once or twice a week...wow!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have spent money on this site too&#8230;and came up empty over and over&#8230;BUT&#8230;finally after maybe a year of contacting women selectively&#8230;don&#8217;t contact the ones with unbelievable profiles or pics&#8230;I met a very cool married woman who lives close to me. We&#8217;ve been seeing each other for close to 6 months now&#8230;her hubby travels during the week&#8230;perfect.  She treats me like a king once or twice a week&#8230;wow!</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-1210</link>
		<dc:creator>Love Guru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 16:14:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You don&#039;t have to tell him that you found his password but tell him that you are uncomfortable with him seeing or talking to his ex. The biggest issue here is his need for intimacy because your relationship is long distance. I am sure that if you were closer to him and top of mind that the situation would be different. I wouldn&#039;t suggest emailing her even though the impulse to do so is so strong. She&#039;ll then use this against you. Guys will in most cases fall for the friends with benefits thing every time because it is low hanging fruit and doesn&#039;t take much maintenance that real relationships do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You don&#8217;t have to tell him that you found his password but tell him that you are uncomfortable with him seeing or talking to his ex. The biggest issue here is his need for intimacy because your relationship is long distance. I am sure that if you were closer to him and top of mind that the situation would be different. I wouldn&#8217;t suggest emailing her even though the impulse to do so is so strong. She&#8217;ll then use this against you. Guys will in most cases fall for the friends with benefits thing every time because it is low hanging fruit and doesn&#8217;t take much maintenance that real relationships do.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Claire</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-1209</link>
		<dc:creator>Claire</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 13:44:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am in a long distance relationship with a wonderful caring guy, accidentally I found out his e-mail password and seen an e-mail from his ex that he is still friends with. From this I have now checked regularly as she is trying to get back with him and they have a friends with benefit thing going on. He always avoids the truth were she is concerned and I have voiced my concerns over their relationship and he said he would cut down on seeing her if it helped. Unfortunately I know that he is planning on hiking with her at the weekend. What should I do, he tells me I am everything to him and he loves me and we have started planning a future together. Should I e-mail her and tell her that she should move on, she had her chance with him? She relies on him far too much as far as I am concerned. I am drained from it all and of course cannot tell him that I know his password (I know this is an unforgivable thing to do). I love him so much and I am planning on moving to be with him. Please help, I&#039;ve lost loads of weight over this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am in a long distance relationship with a wonderful caring guy, accidentally I found out his e-mail password and seen an e-mail from his ex that he is still friends with. From this I have now checked regularly as she is trying to get back with him and they have a friends with benefit thing going on. He always avoids the truth were she is concerned and I have voiced my concerns over their relationship and he said he would cut down on seeing her if it helped. Unfortunately I know that he is planning on hiking with her at the weekend. What should I do, he tells me I am everything to him and he loves me and we have started planning a future together. Should I e-mail her and tell her that she should move on, she had her chance with him? She relies on him far too much as far as I am concerned. I am drained from it all and of course cannot tell him that I know his password (I know this is an unforgivable thing to do). I love him so much and I am planning on moving to be with him. Please help, I&#8217;ve lost loads of weight over this.</p>
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		<title>Comment on DateHookup.com Review (datehookup) by lostabet</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/datehookup/comment-page-1#comment-1199</link>
		<dc:creator>lostabet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2009 15:32:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Site is a scam, even dustin himself has fake profiles on it that he uses to generate hits to the site.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Site is a scam, even dustin himself has fake profiles on it that he uses to generate hits to the site.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by sotiredofthis</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-1198</link>
		<dc:creator>sotiredofthis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2009 03:19:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My boyfriend is a sneaky person......he lies all the time. About 90% of the stuff that come out of his mouth is a lie. He has cheated with a number of women but lately he is chatting with women online on dating sites and txting them on his phone. I don&#039;t know if he is having sex with these women or just talking dirty to them. I don&#039;t know if he&#039;s even met these women or not. He tells them on the phone that when he gets his car fixed he&#039;ll come see them. They txt all during the morning, &quot;Hey boo...I miss you boo&quot; and he&#039;ll txt back the same. I don&#039;t understand why he&#039;s doing this. Everyday he looks me in the face and says &quot;He loves me, I&#039;m the only one for him, I&#039;m his wife&quot; but when I leave or am out of his sight he&#039;s doing this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My boyfriend is a sneaky person&#8230;&#8230;he lies all the time. About 90% of the stuff that come out of his mouth is a lie. He has cheated with a number of women but lately he is chatting with women online on dating sites and txting them on his phone. I don&#8217;t know if he is having sex with these women or just talking dirty to them. I don&#8217;t know if he&#8217;s even met these women or not. He tells them on the phone that when he gets his car fixed he&#8217;ll come see them. They txt all during the morning, &#8220;Hey boo&#8230;I miss you boo&#8221; and he&#8217;ll txt back the same. I don&#8217;t understand why he&#8217;s doing this. Everyday he looks me in the face and says &#8220;He loves me, I&#8217;m the only one for him, I&#8217;m his wife&#8221; but when I leave or am out of his sight he&#8217;s doing this.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Hitwise Internet Dating Rankings &#8211; 12/08 by Love Guru</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/hitwise-internet-dating-rankings-1208/comment-page-1#comment-1190</link>
		<dc:creator>Love Guru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2009 20:13:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>They all measure differently and have different mechanisms for sampling. Hitwise seems to be the most relevant as it pulls traffic data from actual ISPs. All three of these sources will be off in the end as they don&#039;t take in account 3rd party affiliate traffic and partnership white label deals in most cases.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>They all measure differently and have different mechanisms for sampling. Hitwise seems to be the most relevant as it pulls traffic data from actual ISPs. All three of these sources will be off in the end as they don&#8217;t take in account 3rd party affiliate traffic and partnership white label deals in most cases.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-1189</link>
		<dc:creator>Love Guru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2009 20:09:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lara - You should have a very serious conversation to understand why he cheated on you so you can make a determination on whether you think it will happen again and if that is the case then you might want to end the relationship for a little while to teach him a lesson. Tell him to put himself in your seat and see how he would feel it you do that to him.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lara &#8211; You should have a very serious conversation to understand why he cheated on you so you can make a determination on whether you think it will happen again and if that is the case then you might want to end the relationship for a little while to teach him a lesson. Tell him to put himself in your seat and see how he would feel it you do that to him.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Plenty of Fish Dating (Plentyoffish.com) by Leni</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/plenty-of-fish-dating/comment-page-1#comment-1187</link>
		<dc:creator>Leni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 18:23:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have tried 4 times already to get into your system and I have NOT succeeded.  It keeps telling me I need to choose my state in which in reality, it doesn&#039;t say state, but rather Province? and I have to choose something in that field.  Very weird.  So I do choose the closest province to the United States, but then it deletes me off every time. After spending 20 minutes each of the times creating a profile.  Please help!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have tried 4 times already to get into your system and I have NOT succeeded.  It keeps telling me I need to choose my state in which in reality, it doesn&#8217;t say state, but rather Province? and I have to choose something in that field.  Very weird.  So I do choose the closest province to the United States, but then it deletes me off every time. After spending 20 minutes each of the times creating a profile.  Please help!!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Lara</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-1183</link>
		<dc:creator>Lara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 01:11:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My boyfriend cheated on me and I don&#039;t know what to do, I love him and he loves me. But I don&#039;t know if it&#039;s worthwhile still being with him, when the trust that we had is now broken. I feel like I want to trust him, but I don&#039;t know if I can. Please help me
Lara</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My boyfriend cheated on me and I don&#8217;t know what to do, I love him and he loves me. But I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s worthwhile still being with him, when the trust that we had is now broken. I feel like I want to trust him, but I don&#8217;t know if I can. Please help me<br />
Lara</p>
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		<title>Comment on Hitwise Internet Dating Rankings &#8211; 12/08 by Dave</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/hitwise-internet-dating-rankings-1208/comment-page-1#comment-1175</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 18:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m trying to figure out the difference between Hitwise, Nielsen, and ComScore.  Do you know why they&#039;re rankings are so different?

Thanks,

Dave</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m trying to figure out the difference between Hitwise, Nielsen, and ComScore.  Do you know why they&#8217;re rankings are so different?</p>
<p>Thanks,</p>
<p>Dave</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-1161</link>
		<dc:creator>Love Guru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 08:44:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The good part of this story is that she was honest right away and didn&#039;t hide this from you but the bad part is that you guys are left with the reality that she just slept with some guy. If she knew who the guy was then it might be a larger issue but if it was a random person she met in the bar and you are okay with forgiving her then make sure you fully forgive her otherwise this will continue to eat away at your relationship.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The good part of this story is that she was honest right away and didn&#8217;t hide this from you but the bad part is that you guys are left with the reality that she just slept with some guy. If she knew who the guy was then it might be a larger issue but if it was a random person she met in the bar and you are okay with forgiving her then make sure you fully forgive her otherwise this will continue to eat away at your relationship.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by griffin</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-1155</link>
		<dc:creator>griffin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2009 23:09:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yea, my girlfriend cheated on me a week ago was at the bar and got trashed, went back to a friends house and slept with him the next morning she tells me right away and is deeply deeply embarrassed and ashamed of herself. I believe she is sorry for what she did, but where do we take our relationship now?? plz help</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yea, my girlfriend cheated on me a week ago was at the bar and got trashed, went back to a friends house and slept with him the next morning she tells me right away and is deeply deeply embarrassed and ashamed of herself. I believe she is sorry for what she did, but where do we take our relationship now?? plz help</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-1144</link>
		<dc:creator>Love Guru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 05:47:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My real honest advice to you is to move on and leave this relationship behind as a lesson and to not continue to let it emotionally drain you. She probably knew of her pregnancy which is why she felt inclined to tell you that she had cheated on you. It&#039;ll take a little time for you to get over this but in the end you should come out having learned a positive lesson from this relationship. The important piece to take away from this experience is that not all women are cheats so don&#039;t go into your next relationship scarred by this experience but to just take a little more time getting to really know your partner.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My real honest advice to you is to move on and leave this relationship behind as a lesson and to not continue to let it emotionally drain you. She probably knew of her pregnancy which is why she felt inclined to tell you that she had cheated on you. It&#8217;ll take a little time for you to get over this but in the end you should come out having learned a positive lesson from this relationship. The important piece to take away from this experience is that not all women are cheats so don&#8217;t go into your next relationship scarred by this experience but to just take a little more time getting to really know your partner.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by a man torn apart</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-1134</link>
		<dc:creator>a man torn apart</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 04:49:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s really hard to talk about this. She was everything I wanted and so much more. We always talked about how great our lives are gonna be together. How beautiful our children will be when we have them. Hell we even picked out names. At that point I fell in love. Blinded by it so much I did not know of the terrible terrible pain that was to come. I&#039;m from Florida but I met her in North Carolina. I left in december &amp; told her I will be back for her at the end of May. We went out for 10 months but she told me she cheated around 2 months ago. I forgave her because I believe in 2nd chances &amp; I stilled loved her with every ounce of my being. A month later everything turns to hell &amp; pure pain. She tells me she is pregnant with his kid. To top it off they are cousins but they did not know at the time. It hurts so much. Whats more, shortly before she told me that, I had bought her a ring which it doesn&#039;t take a scientist to know what I was going to do with it. Do you know how much balls it takes to ask that kind of question. She hurt me so bad, I still love her but now this baby is between us. All my beliefs about love &amp; life burned in my skull in that moment. I still want to be with her but I do not want to raise a baby that belongs to the man that cheated with my girl. Please I am drained from depression and need immediate guidance.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s really hard to talk about this. She was everything I wanted and so much more. We always talked about how great our lives are gonna be together. How beautiful our children will be when we have them. Hell we even picked out names. At that point I fell in love. Blinded by it so much I did not know of the terrible terrible pain that was to come. I&#8217;m from Florida but I met her in North Carolina. I left in december &amp; told her I will be back for her at the end of May. We went out for 10 months but she told me she cheated around 2 months ago. I forgave her because I believe in 2nd chances &amp; I stilled loved her with every ounce of my being. A month later everything turns to hell &amp; pure pain. She tells me she is pregnant with his kid. To top it off they are cousins but they did not know at the time. It hurts so much. Whats more, shortly before she told me that, I had bought her a ring which it doesn&#8217;t take a scientist to know what I was going to do with it. Do you know how much balls it takes to ask that kind of question. She hurt me so bad, I still love her but now this baby is between us. All my beliefs about love &amp; life burned in my skull in that moment. I still want to be with her but I do not want to raise a baby that belongs to the man that cheated with my girl. Please I am drained from depression and need immediate guidance.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru</title>
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		<dc:creator>Love Guru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 22:50:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow Daniel. Sounds like an emotional roller coaster but one that you signed up to be on. You need to understand that when your girl was getting back with her ex and breaking up with you that she was not decided yet on where her feelings and heart was. This happens a lot in relationships and you can&#039;t force the issue. The more you push the further the person will be from you. You can&#039;t look at the past as her cheating on you as she was torn between the two of you. You need to let her know that you fully forgive her so that you can enjoy your relationship otherwise you are just going to drive yourself crazy over it. You have endured this long so don&#039;t just waste it if you really have feelings for her and just can&#039;t be a man about it and take your ego out of the equation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow Daniel. Sounds like an emotional roller coaster but one that you signed up to be on. You need to understand that when your girl was getting back with her ex and breaking up with you that she was not decided yet on where her feelings and heart was. This happens a lot in relationships and you can&#8217;t force the issue. The more you push the further the person will be from you. You can&#8217;t look at the past as her cheating on you as she was torn between the two of you. You need to let her know that you fully forgive her so that you can enjoy your relationship otherwise you are just going to drive yourself crazy over it. You have endured this long so don&#8217;t just waste it if you really have feelings for her and just can&#8217;t be a man about it and take your ego out of the equation.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 May 2009 02:46:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m in love with this girl and I&#039;m still with her...but last year she cheated on me with her ex and when she told me I overreacted and broke up with her. It broke my heart. She cried a lot. She&#039;s really sensitive too which means she cries easily. Well after this happened a week later it was my birthday and on that day she went back out with her ex (the one she cheated with) and when I found out I was extremely furious and it broke my heart. Over the summer I tried to get back with her but I realized it wasn&#039;t going to happen because she was choosing her new boyfriend over me. I had to go to Mexico for 3 and half weeks and when I got back I have found out that she still had feelings for me and cried and cried because she wanted me back. She couldn&#039;t do it because she was still with her boyfriend. Then one time I went to her house to give her a late present and I kissed her. I thought she was going to pull away but she kissed me back..we were kissing for a lot like if we have never kissed...I was really happy. I remember when I saw her it made me feel happy but after 2 months he broke up with her. I knew the whole time he was playing her and I tried telling her but she didn&#039;t believe me. I remember being there for her when it broke her heart. We went back out but not for long because she wanted to go back out with her ex and she broke up with me. It broke my heart once again. I thought we were done for real now but a month later I found out she broke up with me because she thought I was cheating on her because of a myspace comment she saw me talking with this girl and somebody messaged her saying that I had sex with this other girl. It wasn&#039;t true though and she got back with me 2 days later after New Years. She realized I was the one she needed and that she loved me. Her ex tried to get back with her but she resisted. She has proven to me that she will never do that again but now I&#039;m the one causing problems. I always call her a ho and a bitch because every time I remember what she did. It kills me and it makes her cry a lot. Right now me and my girl are in a fight about this again as I&#039;m writing this comment. I just need a way to forget about the past, just a way. That&#039;s all I want.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m in love with this girl and I&#8217;m still with her&#8230;but last year she cheated on me with her ex and when she told me I overreacted and broke up with her. It broke my heart. She cried a lot. She&#8217;s really sensitive too which means she cries easily. Well after this happened a week later it was my birthday and on that day she went back out with her ex (the one she cheated with) and when I found out I was extremely furious and it broke my heart. Over the summer I tried to get back with her but I realized it wasn&#8217;t going to happen because she was choosing her new boyfriend over me. I had to go to Mexico for 3 and half weeks and when I got back I have found out that she still had feelings for me and cried and cried because she wanted me back. She couldn&#8217;t do it because she was still with her boyfriend. Then one time I went to her house to give her a late present and I kissed her. I thought she was going to pull away but she kissed me back..we were kissing for a lot like if we have never kissed&#8230;I was really happy. I remember when I saw her it made me feel happy but after 2 months he broke up with her. I knew the whole time he was playing her and I tried telling her but she didn&#8217;t believe me. I remember being there for her when it broke her heart. We went back out but not for long because she wanted to go back out with her ex and she broke up with me. It broke my heart once again. I thought we were done for real now but a month later I found out she broke up with me because she thought I was cheating on her because of a myspace comment she saw me talking with this girl and somebody messaged her saying that I had sex with this other girl. It wasn&#8217;t true though and she got back with me 2 days later after New Years. She realized I was the one she needed and that she loved me. Her ex tried to get back with her but she resisted. She has proven to me that she will never do that again but now I&#8217;m the one causing problems. I always call her a ho and a bitch because every time I remember what she did. It kills me and it makes her cry a lot. Right now me and my girl are in a fight about this again as I&#8217;m writing this comment. I just need a way to forget about the past, just a way. That&#8217;s all I want.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Love Guru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 01:12:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First of all you really need to get down to the bottom of the truth with your best friend and have a heart to heart with her and if you feel that she is really lying then you need to distance yourself from her. You don&#039;t need friends like that around you. As far as your baby&#039;s daddy goes, you also need to sit down with him and his family to see  how committed and mature he is going to be with your relationship from this point on so you don&#039;t put yourself out there emotionally without the same feelings in return.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First of all you really need to get down to the bottom of the truth with your best friend and have a heart to heart with her and if you feel that she is really lying then you need to distance yourself from her. You don&#8217;t need friends like that around you. As far as your baby&#8217;s daddy goes, you also need to sit down with him and his family to see  how committed and mature he is going to be with your relationship from this point on so you don&#8217;t put yourself out there emotionally without the same feelings in return.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by charlotte</title>
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		<dc:creator>charlotte</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2009 12:55:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend he has sexual intercourse with her and said that was it but I still think he had sex with her, but she denies it all. He always says sorry but there has been other times I&#039;ve caught him texting other girls under boys names in his phone. I&#039;m also 6 months pregnant with his baby and I&#039;m really scared. What should I do? I love him so much I just don&#039;t think he loves me. Please help?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend he has sexual intercourse with her and said that was it but I still think he had sex with her, but she denies it all. He always says sorry but there has been other times I&#8217;ve caught him texting other girls under boys names in his phone. I&#8217;m also 6 months pregnant with his baby and I&#8217;m really scared. What should I do? I love him so much I just don&#8217;t think he loves me. Please help?</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Guy Hearm</title>
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		<dc:creator>Guy Hearm</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2009 02:40:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If a girl/guy cheats on you, break up with them.  If my girl ever cheated on me I would just tell her to beat it.  I always worry about her cheating on me.  Maybe its because I am OCD and can&#039;t stop obsessing over stupid minute details.  Once a cheater always a cheater, if you want to get cheated on and your heart broken again, keep dating him/her.  If not, break up with them! If they cheat on you it means they obviously don&#039;t love you anyway.  Find someone who really cares.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If a girl/guy cheats on you, break up with them.  If my girl ever cheated on me I would just tell her to beat it.  I always worry about her cheating on me.  Maybe its because I am OCD and can&#8217;t stop obsessing over stupid minute details.  Once a cheater always a cheater, if you want to get cheated on and your heart broken again, keep dating him/her.  If not, break up with them! If they cheat on you it means they obviously don&#8217;t love you anyway.  Find someone who really cares.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Simone Travis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 15:02:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>POF yanked their IM last week without notifying their members.  This is indicative of the kind of nonsense members have had to put up with from POF management.  Needless to say I&#039;ve cancelled by membership, and will be going elsewhere!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>POF yanked their IM last week without notifying their members.  This is indicative of the kind of nonsense members have had to put up with from POF management.  Needless to say I&#8217;ve cancelled by membership, and will be going elsewhere!</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-1090</link>
		<dc:creator>Love Guru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 18:38:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brad - I think all of the writing on the wall is here with this one. You probably don&#039;t feel like you love her because of this betrayal. I would cut your loses here so you don&#039;t waste anymore of your life in this relationship. I stayed in a 6 year relationship that I should have ended after 3 years. Life is too short and there are way too many women out there to be hung up on this one. She has shown you her cards and you need to make a move now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brad &#8211; I think all of the writing on the wall is here with this one. You probably don&#8217;t feel like you love her because of this betrayal. I would cut your loses here so you don&#8217;t waste anymore of your life in this relationship. I stayed in a 6 year relationship that I should have ended after 3 years. Life is too short and there are way too many women out there to be hung up on this one. She has shown you her cards and you need to make a move now.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by juan</title>
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		<dc:creator>juan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 18:26:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I use to be a player ass gang member that like to go out with a lot of girls n played them all then came a short beautiful short chunky girl that change my life around I stopped gangbangin n stop being a player she took me in as a player n risked it just so she could love me n then I got played all crazy I did not break up with her n it was hard but if u love someone n if they r sorry they deserve 1 last chance.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I use to be a player ass gang member that like to go out with a lot of girls n played them all then came a short beautiful short chunky girl that change my life around I stopped gangbangin n stop being a player she took me in as a player n risked it just so she could love me n then I got played all crazy I did not break up with her n it was hard but if u love someone n if they r sorry they deserve 1 last chance.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Brad</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 14:45:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi - About 6 months ago I found out that my girlfriend of 3 years had been sleeping with her boss. We stayed together and I have asked here to leave her job and she still hasn&#039;t. To be honest my problem is that I don&#039;t know if I love her. Don&#039;t worry I need more help than this can give me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi &#8211; About 6 months ago I found out that my girlfriend of 3 years had been sleeping with her boss. We stayed together and I have asked here to leave her job and she still hasn&#8217;t. To be honest my problem is that I don&#8217;t know if I love her. Don&#8217;t worry I need more help than this can give me.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru</title>
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		<dc:creator>Love Guru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 23:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Joel - the big issue here is the long distance relationship that you guys are trying to maintain. She sounds like she is needy for intimacy so you need to make the decision to either move back to be closer to her or accept that she will continue to cheat on you without no real excuse except that she needs to be fulfilled physically in your absence. If you are okay with an open relationship then you just need to make sure that you don&#039;t get jealous when this is happening and that she is protecting herself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joel &#8211; the big issue here is the long distance relationship that you guys are trying to maintain. She sounds like she is needy for intimacy so you need to make the decision to either move back to be closer to her or accept that she will continue to cheat on you without no real excuse except that she needs to be fulfilled physically in your absence. If you are okay with an open relationship then you just need to make sure that you don&#8217;t get jealous when this is happening and that she is protecting herself.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by joel</title>
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		<dc:creator>joel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 22:43:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, my name is Joel and I live in florida but I just moved away from my girlfriend that lives in New Jersey and I recently found out for the first time ever that she cheated on me. Some guy messed around with her and I asked her why she didn&#039;t stop him and she said she was caught up in the moment. We&#039;re both very much in love with each other and I can&#039;t stand not being with her but I&#039;m going back and I need some wise words of what to do. Please help?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, my name is Joel and I live in florida but I just moved away from my girlfriend that lives in New Jersey and I recently found out for the first time ever that she cheated on me. Some guy messed around with her and I asked her why she didn&#8217;t stop him and she said she was caught up in the moment. We&#8217;re both very much in love with each other and I can&#8217;t stand not being with her but I&#8217;m going back and I need some wise words of what to do. Please help?</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by admin</title>
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		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 22:42:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wouldn&#039;t let the &quot;I was so drunk&quot; excuse go for this one. It is one thing to get super wasted and make out with a girl or grind on them on the dance floor but going home with them crosses all boundaries and whomever he was drinking with should have been looking out for him and making sure something like this would happen. If he says that he only slept in her bed he is just softening the blow to you. I would just make sure he used a condom if you are sticking around.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wouldn&#8217;t let the &#8220;I was so drunk&#8221; excuse go for this one. It is one thing to get super wasted and make out with a girl or grind on them on the dance floor but going home with them crosses all boundaries and whomever he was drinking with should have been looking out for him and making sure something like this would happen. If he says that he only slept in her bed he is just softening the blow to you. I would just make sure he used a condom if you are sticking around.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Sarah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 21:04:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My boyfriend got really drunk, and nearly slept with another woman. Before it got to full intercourse, he stopped it and said he couldn&#039;t go through with it, because he was with me. However, he still slept in her bed, and cuddled with her until the morning, because he said he &#039;felt sorry&#039; for her. She was a total Stranger. He doesn&#039;t know why he did it, and can barely remember much of it as he was so drunk ( he rarely drinks). I don&#039;t know what to think- I&#039;m still here, but only just. Is this any different than it would be if he had properly slept with her, and not given into his conscience?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My boyfriend got really drunk, and nearly slept with another woman. Before it got to full intercourse, he stopped it and said he couldn&#8217;t go through with it, because he was with me. However, he still slept in her bed, and cuddled with her until the morning, because he said he &#8216;felt sorry&#8217; for her. She was a total Stranger. He doesn&#8217;t know why he did it, and can barely remember much of it as he was so drunk ( he rarely drinks). I don&#8217;t know what to think- I&#8217;m still here, but only just. Is this any different than it would be if he had properly slept with her, and not given into his conscience?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dating in a Down Economy by Nataliya</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nataliya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 19:33:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>People need each other more in tough times to support and encourage</description>
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		<title>Comment on Interracial Romance by Nataliya</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nataliya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 19:30:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There is nothing bad about interracial romance and dating. The difficulty might be in the way of thinking and difference in cultures but real love can overcome all this</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is nothing bad about interracial romance and dating. The difficulty might be in the way of thinking and difference in cultures but real love can overcome all this</p>
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		<dc:creator>DouG Molidor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 01:42:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you happen to have any of the True ads with video, could you post?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you happen to have any of the True ads with video, could you post?</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by admin</title>
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		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 22:07:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kim - I would tread lightly here with this guy and maybe take out the emotional part so you don&#039;t fall head over heals with him and just end up hurt in the end. If you like being with him and don&#039;t mind the exclusivity bit then just have a little fun with it but if you are seriously bothered by him being with other girls then end it now on the physical side of things even with the kissing. He might need a little time to mature and realize that he can&#039;t be in a real relationship and play these games. At least he is being honest with you now that you caught him about not wanting to be with only one person. I think that is a big enough signal that things might just not work out right now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kim &#8211; I would tread lightly here with this guy and maybe take out the emotional part so you don&#8217;t fall head over heals with him and just end up hurt in the end. If you like being with him and don&#8217;t mind the exclusivity bit then just have a little fun with it but if you are seriously bothered by him being with other girls then end it now on the physical side of things even with the kissing. He might need a little time to mature and realize that he can&#8217;t be in a real relationship and play these games. At least he is being honest with you now that you caught him about not wanting to be with only one person. I think that is a big enough signal that things might just not work out right now.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Kimm</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kimm</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 21:57:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Okay I was out with this guy and although I didn&#039;t fully trust him as I knew before I got with him he had more then one girl on the go. Thing is a week into the relationship he kisses another girl he thinks I dunno. Turns out I do and I confront him about it and he says &quot;There&#039;s nothing to say about it&quot;. I then agreed to stay with him but after leaving to go home I get a text saying &quot;It&#039;s over that he can&#039;t just be with one person&quot;. Then today , the next day after, he asks to meet up with me to make amends. He goes on about how he can&#039;t just be with me and asks me what I want to do about us. I love him but I&#039;m furious with him and I dunno what to do. Worse of all after all this I let him kiss me and now I&#039;m kicking myself for it. What should I do? I wanna be with him but not with all the other girls as well. :( help!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay I was out with this guy and although I didn&#8217;t fully trust him as I knew before I got with him he had more then one girl on the go. Thing is a week into the relationship he kisses another girl he thinks I dunno. Turns out I do and I confront him about it and he says &#8220;There&#8217;s nothing to say about it&#8221;. I then agreed to stay with him but after leaving to go home I get a text saying &#8220;It&#8217;s over that he can&#8217;t just be with one person&#8221;. Then today , the next day after, he asks to meet up with me to make amends. He goes on about how he can&#8217;t just be with me and asks me what I want to do about us. I love him but I&#8217;m furious with him and I dunno what to do. Worse of all after all this I let him kiss me and now I&#8217;m kicking myself for it. What should I do? I wanna be with him but not with all the other girls as well. <img src='http://www.lovesites.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />  help!</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Heartbroken</title>
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		<dc:creator>Heartbroken</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 08:21:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My girlfriend of one year and 3 months cheated on me. I know there was absolutely no reason for her to be unhappy with our relationship, but she did it anyways. I will never forget this hurt and betrayal. I just needed to get this off my chest.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My girlfriend of one year and 3 months cheated on me. I know there was absolutely no reason for her to be unhappy with our relationship, but she did it anyways. I will never forget this hurt and betrayal. I just needed to get this off my chest.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Raymond</title>
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		<dc:creator>Raymond</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2009 12:34:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Look I don&#039;t want a response but I have a girl for a year and 4 months... I found out she sorta cheated on me and it hurt but I loved her so much I just wanted to work through it, we did and got back together then in 4 days she said she didn&#039;t want to be together but she couldn&#039;t breakup with me so I wanted her to be happy, so I did it for her ..... I&#039;m devastated, hurt and just can get her outta my mind so no matter what you say I&#039;ll love her forever and I&#039;ll never forget her and I&#039;m always going to try to get her back.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Look I don&#8217;t want a response but I have a girl for a year and 4 months&#8230; I found out she sorta cheated on me and it hurt but I loved her so much I just wanted to work through it, we did and got back together then in 4 days she said she didn&#8217;t want to be together but she couldn&#8217;t breakup with me so I wanted her to be happy, so I did it for her &#8230;.. I&#8217;m devastated, hurt and just can get her outta my mind so no matter what you say I&#8217;ll love her forever and I&#8217;ll never forget her and I&#8217;m always going to try to get her back.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Penthouse Buys Adult Friend Finder by Rohit A</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rohit A</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Mar 2009 07:05:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Of course, what a great site and informative posts, I will add backlink - bookmark this site? Regards, Reader.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Of course, what a great site and informative posts, I will add backlink &#8211; bookmark this site? Regards, Reader.</p>
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		<title>Comment on White Label Dating Technology by John Looney</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Looney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 15:08:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi All

I`m a manager at a white label department with EasyDate.
Launched commercially in the UK in 2002, today we a re ready to provide a wide range of opportunities for you, dear webmasters!

Glad I found the lovesites because it is a great place to share the abilities we create for affiliates and webmasters working in a dating sphere.

Hope to get new ideas and partners here for development and cooperation!
PS: enjoy our 100% revenue share!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi All</p>
<p>I`m a manager at a white label department with EasyDate.<br />
Launched commercially in the UK in 2002, today we a re ready to provide a wide range of opportunities for you, dear webmasters!</p>
<p>Glad I found the lovesites because it is a great place to share the abilities we create for affiliates and webmasters working in a dating sphere.</p>
<p>Hope to get new ideas and partners here for development and cooperation!<br />
PS: enjoy our 100% revenue share!</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Chris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2009 05:41:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My girlfriend cheated on me after 7 months of dating pretty much, we were doing pretty good and everything... But she liked this other guy and she never really told me about it, she always pointed him out in the halls and said that she hated the guy... But one night she got drunk with him and slept with him... She told me Monday and then broke up with me... I still love her but she wants to be friends... But she told me that shes going out with him now, and I don&#039;t quite think I can stay with her (friendship wise) anymore, I love her and if I can&#039;t have her as a girlfriend then I don&#039;t think I want her as a friend... It would go against my... I can&#039;t remember what its called... It would go against what I feel for her. But if she wants this guy and shes happy with him then I will be happy for her... I just need help on  what I should do now, because im at a loss right now and I have no idea what to do... Im very open and tomorrow I think I will just tell her what I just told all of you, hopefully it will get better.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My girlfriend cheated on me after 7 months of dating pretty much, we were doing pretty good and everything&#8230; But she liked this other guy and she never really told me about it, she always pointed him out in the halls and said that she hated the guy&#8230; But one night she got drunk with him and slept with him&#8230; She told me Monday and then broke up with me&#8230; I still love her but she wants to be friends&#8230; But she told me that shes going out with him now, and I don&#8217;t quite think I can stay with her (friendship wise) anymore, I love her and if I can&#8217;t have her as a girlfriend then I don&#8217;t think I want her as a friend&#8230; It would go against my&#8230; I can&#8217;t remember what its called&#8230; It would go against what I feel for her. But if she wants this guy and shes happy with him then I will be happy for her&#8230; I just need help on  what I should do now, because im at a loss right now and I have no idea what to do&#8230; Im very open and tomorrow I think I will just tell her what I just told all of you, hopefully it will get better.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Plenty of Fish Dating (Plentyoffish.com) by 71flavors</title>
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		<dc:creator>71flavors</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2009 16:51:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>free online dating is the way to go...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>free online dating is the way to go&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Match.com Launches Free Dating Site (DowntoEarth.com) by admin</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/match-launches-downtoearth/comment-page-1#comment-647</link>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 17:52:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Do you honestly think that POF is worth more than Facebook? Wow. I am an interactive media buyer and have been for the past 10+ years. Facebook can target users down to all kinds of demographics on a CPM or CPC. 

&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.lovesites.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/picture-4-300x219.png&quot; alt=&quot;picture-4&quot; title=&quot;picture-4&quot; width=&quot;300&quot; height=&quot;219&quot; class=&quot;aligncenter size-medium wp-image-567&quot; /&gt;

Markus has probably felt a drop recently in sponsors and advertising CPMs on his site because it is a niche audience and buyers like myself aren&#039;t advertising on these types of sites anymore. We are buying up all kinds of remnant inventory from the portals for cheap that have high quality traffic. Markus recently launched a paid service feature on his site. I wonder if this is in response to Match launching a free service or if he is seeing a drop in revenue but maybe not traffic. There is a site like Facebook in Russia that now charges for the same type of service since they have access to over 20M users. If Facebook figures out a better way to monetize its users with micro payment services then it&#039;ll be lights out. If Markus turned his site into a pay service then people will jump ship over night. I have seen it happen with a German free dating site before that went to a paid model and lost their business in months. My comment was that Markus definitely has a valuable property but that he needs to start comparing it to other dating sites and not a property like Facebook if he wants to get a fair valuation for what his business is worth.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you honestly think that POF is worth more than Facebook? Wow. I am an interactive media buyer and have been for the past 10+ years. Facebook can target users down to all kinds of demographics on a CPM or CPC. </p>
<p><img src="http://www.lovesites.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/picture-4-300x219.png" alt="picture-4" title="picture-4" width="300" height="219" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-567" /></p>
<p>Markus has probably felt a drop recently in sponsors and advertising CPMs on his site because it is a niche audience and buyers like myself aren&#8217;t advertising on these types of sites anymore. We are buying up all kinds of remnant inventory from the portals for cheap that have high quality traffic. Markus recently launched a paid service feature on his site. I wonder if this is in response to Match launching a free service or if he is seeing a drop in revenue but maybe not traffic. There is a site like Facebook in Russia that now charges for the same type of service since they have access to over 20M users. If Facebook figures out a better way to monetize its users with micro payment services then it&#8217;ll be lights out. If Markus turned his site into a pay service then people will jump ship over night. I have seen it happen with a German free dating site before that went to a paid model and lost their business in months. My comment was that Markus definitely has a valuable property but that he needs to start comparing it to other dating sites and not a property like Facebook if he wants to get a fair valuation for what his business is worth.</p>
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		<title>Comment on FriendFinder Networks IPO by Online Dating</title>
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		<dc:creator>Online Dating</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 01:48:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, this story is truly inspiring! Thanks for sharing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, this story is truly inspiring! Thanks for sharing.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ashley Madison Review (AshleyMadison.com) by Ronnie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ronnie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 00:12:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Waste of time!!Save your money!! Been on 3 months wasted 115 credits on curious seekers who just want to see your private photos!!  Bogas rip off over price garbage.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Waste of time!!Save your money!! Been on 3 months wasted 115 credits on curious seekers who just want to see your private photos!!  Bogas rip off over price garbage.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by admin</title>
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		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 16:57:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sounds like he is just string you along. I would just ignore him a bit and keep your options open. Men don&#039;t like competition and if he thinks that you might not be interested in him anymore then maybe he&#039;ll stop playing the field and settle down. Anyone who breaks up a day after making a commitment is a bit confused. Take a couple steps back and it&#039;ll start to be a little clearer as to what his intentions are.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sounds like he is just string you along. I would just ignore him a bit and keep your options open. Men don&#8217;t like competition and if he thinks that you might not be interested in him anymore then maybe he&#8217;ll stop playing the field and settle down. Anyone who breaks up a day after making a commitment is a bit confused. Take a couple steps back and it&#8217;ll start to be a little clearer as to what his intentions are.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by mary</title>
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		<dc:creator>mary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 01:35:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>okay i like this boy we known eachother almost a month already. But before he wanted to be offical to be in a relationship. Before he didn&#039;t want to rush into things so i agreed on the same. But then he broke up with me the next day and said he wan&#039;t ready and that he doesn&#039;t wants to break my heart. We are still talking and etc but we act just like a couple and we are not he went to my house before and met my parents and then i went to his house. I am not dumb to &quot;do it&quot; with him. But like i seen on his myspace page this girl he has he talks to and she writes &quot;do you tell all those girls that?&quot; he has a habit of saying the sweetest stuff but to me it&#039;s sweetalking to confuse the girl. So i asked him does he talks to other girls so i don&#039;t have to waste my time waiting for him to be a couple. He does want us to be offical he keeps giving me hints about us in a relationship so idk???</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>okay i like this boy we known eachother almost a month already. But before he wanted to be offical to be in a relationship. Before he didn&#8217;t want to rush into things so i agreed on the same. But then he broke up with me the next day and said he wan&#8217;t ready and that he doesn&#8217;t wants to break my heart. We are still talking and etc but we act just like a couple and we are not he went to my house before and met my parents and then i went to his house. I am not dumb to &#8220;do it&#8221; with him. But like i seen on his myspace page this girl he has he talks to and she writes &#8220;do you tell all those girls that?&#8221; he has a habit of saying the sweetest stuff but to me it&#8217;s sweetalking to confuse the girl. So i asked him does he talks to other girls so i don&#8217;t have to waste my time waiting for him to be a couple. He does want us to be offical he keeps giving me hints about us in a relationship so idk???</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ashley Madison Review (AshleyMadison.com) by Kevin Johnson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kevin Johnson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 04:30:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Poor site.  Customer service has not responded to many emails.  A contact phone number is not listed on the site.  Hence if you spend your money with them and have one of the many problems with their site, do not expect them to respond.  You pay for collect messages from people said to have an interest in you and once you pay the collect fee, nothing more is heard back.  Chats are purchased in 30 min. or 60 minutes segments but chats are usually &quot;lost&quot; due we guess technical problems but you are not told you are disconnected.  You just lose the money you paid for the chat unless you can find a way to reconnect within 24 hrs. (which does not happen)  Stay aaway.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Poor site.  Customer service has not responded to many emails.  A contact phone number is not listed on the site.  Hence if you spend your money with them and have one of the many problems with their site, do not expect them to respond.  You pay for collect messages from people said to have an interest in you and once you pay the collect fee, nothing more is heard back.  Chats are purchased in 30 min. or 60 minutes segments but chats are usually &#8220;lost&#8221; due we guess technical problems but you are not told you are disconnected.  You just lose the money you paid for the chat unless you can find a way to reconnect within 24 hrs. (which does not happen)  Stay aaway.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Age Gap Relationships by lilian</title>
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		<dc:creator>lilian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2009 14:19:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>there was a man who wanted to marry me and he is 50 years old and iam 22</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>there was a man who wanted to marry me and he is 50 years old and iam 22</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Dylan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dylan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 12:56:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Im 14yrs old. I have a girlfriend who i am truly in love with. Thimg is, i told her i loved her and she said it back. I told her again and she said it back. She was lying. She cheated on me the other day by going out with 2 16yr old guys. Im worried sick that this could ruin my relationship. Im also worried that she might get hurt. I mean, it&#039;s 2 16yr olds that can drive and see her anytime they want, and what if she refuses to give them what they want and they decide to take what they want or punish her for not giving it to them. Please help me...I have no idea what i can do to save myself and her.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Im 14yrs old. I have a girlfriend who i am truly in love with. Thimg is, i told her i loved her and she said it back. I told her again and she said it back. She was lying. She cheated on me the other day by going out with 2 16yr old guys. Im worried sick that this could ruin my relationship. Im also worried that she might get hurt. I mean, it&#8217;s 2 16yr olds that can drive and see her anytime they want, and what if she refuses to give them what they want and they decide to take what they want or punish her for not giving it to them. Please help me&#8230;I have no idea what i can do to save myself and her.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Matt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 19:24:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I broke up with my girlfriend and i still loved her but needed space. She is not a whore, but choose to screw like 5 other guys when we broke up. I still love her and she says she wants to be together but i dont know if i can get over the kind of person she choose to be when we werent dating.....HELP plz</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I broke up with my girlfriend and i still loved her but needed space. She is not a whore, but choose to screw like 5 other guys when we broke up. I still love her and she says she wants to be together but i dont know if i can get over the kind of person she choose to be when we werent dating&#8230;..HELP plz</p>
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		<title>Comment on Match.com Launches Free Dating Site (DowntoEarth.com) by Mike</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 15:05:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Quoting:

&quot;I would like to see Markus get acquired but I don’t think he has a good grasp of what his site is actually worth as he keeps comparing it to Facebook and other social network acquisitions. Trust me POF is far, far away from anything related to FB.&quot;

How do you know how much POF is or isn&#039;t worth?  And what makes you think Facebook is worth more?  Because you like the site better? In fact, Facebook clearly doesn&#039;t know how much it is valued, because it was stated in an article that it was way overvalued for what it has to offer....in fact, it offers no value to its users, other than advertising.  POF has a far greater value than facebook since there is a much greater and targeted purpose in the site (to find a date, plain and simple).  In my opinion, POF has a far greater potential to make so much more money through paid subscriptions.  Do you think Facebook members will ever pay for subscriptions?  The reason why they won&#039;t, is because there is no real value in Facebook.</description>
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<p>&#8220;I would like to see Markus get acquired but I don’t think he has a good grasp of what his site is actually worth as he keeps comparing it to Facebook and other social network acquisitions. Trust me POF is far, far away from anything related to FB.&#8221;</p>
<p>How do you know how much POF is or isn&#8217;t worth?  And what makes you think Facebook is worth more?  Because you like the site better? In fact, Facebook clearly doesn&#8217;t know how much it is valued, because it was stated in an article that it was way overvalued for what it has to offer&#8230;.in fact, it offers no value to its users, other than advertising.  POF has a far greater value than facebook since there is a much greater and targeted purpose in the site (to find a date, plain and simple).  In my opinion, POF has a far greater potential to make so much more money through paid subscriptions.  Do you think Facebook members will ever pay for subscriptions?  The reason why they won&#8217;t, is because there is no real value in Facebook.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Match.com Launches Free Dating Site (DowntoEarth.com) by jessica</title>
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		<dc:creator>jessica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Feb 2009 08:17:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I guess Match.com is obsolescencing themselves before Plentyoffish.com does? &gt;_&lt;

Check out sweetr.net if your into free :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I guess Match.com is obsolescencing themselves before Plentyoffish.com does? &gt;_&lt;</p>
<p>Check out sweetr.net if your into free <img src='http://www.lovesites.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by john</title>
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		<dc:creator>john</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Feb 2009 04:45:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My girl went to Jamaica and cheated with bartender she was only there for 7 days. What should I do now that my girl cheated on me?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My girl went to Jamaica and cheated with bartender she was only there for 7 days. What should I do now that my girl cheated on me?</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by jerry</title>
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		<dc:creator>jerry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2009 16:24:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well my girlfriend cheated on me 2 or 3 day after we went out by having sexy with another guy. i never really would have expected that from her n the only reason she told me was because she thought she was pregnant from him. i didnt brake up with her cuz i thought it was mine but now it turns out that she not but ever sense i we have been talking about it n she told me when we went out she didnt care about anything but know she said she cant live with out me cuz i changed her n treated her the best like no other guy. i lover her so much but i dont know wat to do because everything she tells me i think she is lying to me but at the same time i dont so plz Email me n give some advice</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well my girlfriend cheated on me 2 or 3 day after we went out by having sexy with another guy. i never really would have expected that from her n the only reason she told me was because she thought she was pregnant from him. i didnt brake up with her cuz i thought it was mine but now it turns out that she not but ever sense i we have been talking about it n she told me when we went out she didnt care about anything but know she said she cant live with out me cuz i changed her n treated her the best like no other guy. i lover her so much but i dont know wat to do because everything she tells me i think she is lying to me but at the same time i dont so plz Email me n give some advice</p>
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		<dc:creator>Chan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2009 03:12:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My girlfriend cheated on me and it&#039;s hard to ever think of us reall being together but it gets worse because right now we live together and I have no where to go. I don&#039;t know how to deal</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My girlfriend cheated on me and it&#8217;s hard to ever think of us reall being together but it gets worse because right now we live together and I have no where to go. I don&#8217;t know how to deal</p>
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		<title>Comment on Gay Marriages? by john  michael samson</title>
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		<dc:creator>john  michael samson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2009 00:13:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yes why not. we have the right to feel the real happiness in life. we are a human being to feel in love and to get hurt..
but always remember to face the reality that we are a homosexual. don&#039;t cheat people around you. no man can leave with a gay for his whole life. the relations of the same sex is not for a long time just only for a past time. expect the unexpected reason in all time. keep up the good personality of the homosexual. take care.... i hope that i can marry also.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yes why not. we have the right to feel the real happiness in life. we are a human being to feel in love and to get hurt..<br />
but always remember to face the reality that we are a homosexual. don&#8217;t cheat people around you. no man can leave with a gay for his whole life. the relations of the same sex is not for a long time just only for a past time. expect the unexpected reason in all time. keep up the good personality of the homosexual. take care&#8230;. i hope that i can marry also.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by oneilia</title>
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		<dc:creator>oneilia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 02:47:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>my boyfriend cheated when we just met by kissing another girl and now hes cheating on me again. i am only 14yrs old and i am madly in love with this guy he treats me the best i don&#039;t get to go on dates with him but we talk a lot over the phone he talks about my education and he doesn&#039;t want anything physical he is my first and i want him to be my last please tell me what to do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>my boyfriend cheated when we just met by kissing another girl and now hes cheating on me again. i am only 14yrs old and i am madly in love with this guy he treats me the best i don&#8217;t get to go on dates with him but we talk a lot over the phone he talks about my education and he doesn&#8217;t want anything physical he is my first and i want him to be my last please tell me what to do.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Personality Tests. Do They Work? by KT</title>
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		<dc:creator>KT</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2009 02:46:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>True also uses personality match (or at least they used to) but I am glad you didn&#039;t include them as a reputable site.  My personal experience with them is that when it comes to integrity they are very untrue.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>True also uses personality match (or at least they used to) but I am glad you didn&#8217;t include them as a reputable site.  My personal experience with them is that when it comes to integrity they are very untrue.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Emmy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Emmy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2009 02:08:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My boyfriend of two years had sex with another girl twice.
He&#039;s being extremely sincere about it.
I know deep down I have hope of one day being with him again. I hope he will be the guy of my dreams as he once was. 
Though, He did lie about it for a month and I had to figure it out from his friend. 
He even denied it for a little while.
I dont know whether to believe him.
He has lied and hurt me plenty of times but has never gone this far. 
I&#039;m in love with him and he says that he&#039;s still in love with me.
I&#039;m scared and I really need help.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My boyfriend of two years had sex with another girl twice.<br />
He&#8217;s being extremely sincere about it.<br />
I know deep down I have hope of one day being with him again. I hope he will be the guy of my dreams as he once was.<br />
Though, He did lie about it for a month and I had to figure it out from his friend.<br />
He even denied it for a little while.<br />
I dont know whether to believe him.<br />
He has lied and hurt me plenty of times but has never gone this far.<br />
I&#8217;m in love with him and he says that he&#8217;s still in love with me.<br />
I&#8217;m scared and I really need help.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Match.com Launches Free Dating Site (DowntoEarth.com) by beentheredonethat</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/match-launches-downtoearth/comment-page-1#comment-560</link>
		<dc:creator>beentheredonethat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 22:41:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am so happy that I found POF! I only wish I could find more like it. I used to be on E-harmony. I stayed on for a year but didn&#039;t have a connection with any of my &quot;matches.&quot; Personally, I felt it was a scam bc like another blogger wrote, people fill out their own profile questionnaire and overrate themselves in most categories, so it&#039;s no different than meeting someone on POF or any other site. I mean, those people weren&#039;t any more of a match for me than what I would meet elsewhere. I don&#039;t know why people pay for this type of service still, but they say there&#039;s one born every minute so I guess that has something to do with it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am so happy that I found POF! I only wish I could find more like it. I used to be on E-harmony. I stayed on for a year but didn&#8217;t have a connection with any of my &#8220;matches.&#8221; Personally, I felt it was a scam bc like another blogger wrote, people fill out their own profile questionnaire and overrate themselves in most categories, so it&#8217;s no different than meeting someone on POF or any other site. I mean, those people weren&#8217;t any more of a match for me than what I would meet elsewhere. I don&#8217;t know why people pay for this type of service still, but they say there&#8217;s one born every minute so I guess that has something to do with it?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Age Gap Relationships by Peter Brown</title>
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		<dc:creator>Peter Brown</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 18:52:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am in a relationship with a woman 30 years younger than me. I am 61 she is 30. Will this, can this last? We are both saggitarians. I am not wealthy. We have lived together for 3 months.

Thanks</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am in a relationship with a woman 30 years younger than me. I am 61 she is 30. Will this, can this last? We are both saggitarians. I am not wealthy. We have lived together for 3 months.</p>
<p>Thanks</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are You a Jealous Lover? by theresa</title>
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		<dc:creator>theresa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 15:53:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i like the tips of jealousy</description>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Sam</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 14:38:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi my girlfriend cheated on me thinking I would not find out myself but I proved her wrong by confronting the guy she was dating and we called her and talked to her. But I still love her so much.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi my girlfriend cheated on me thinking I would not find out myself but I proved her wrong by confronting the guy she was dating and we called her and talked to her. But I still love her so much.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Raul</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-532</link>
		<dc:creator>Raul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2009 14:22:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There is no need to cheat in a relationship i just found out my girlfriend cheated on me. I feel like she took a piece of my heart. You can&#039;t be with two people at the same time and say you love one and want to be with the other one.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is no need to cheat in a relationship i just found out my girlfriend cheated on me. I feel like she took a piece of my heart. You can&#8217;t be with two people at the same time and say you love one and want to be with the other one.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Plenty of Fish Dating (Plentyoffish.com) by JEANETTE</title>
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		<dc:creator>JEANETTE</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jan 2009 18:57:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Where are all you gentlemen</description>
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		<title>Comment on Meetic.com Review (Meetic) by uche</title>
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		<dc:creator>uche</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2009 12:28:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i love the site</description>
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		<title>Comment on Ending the Relationship by admin</title>
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		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 19:38:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you have a partner that doesn&#039;t want to end the relationship then you need to be very direct with your feelings and intentions about them. Having friends with benefits can be fun but can also have a damaging effect in the long run. I always suggest a clean break.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you have a partner that doesn&#8217;t want to end the relationship then you need to be very direct with your feelings and intentions about them. Having friends with benefits can be fun but can also have a damaging effect in the long run. I always suggest a clean break.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ending the Relationship by Dennis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dennis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 07:53:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>what if the other partner refuses to break the relationship with you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>what if the other partner refuses to break the relationship with you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Dennis</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-513</link>
		<dc:creator>Dennis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 07:47:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>People should stop cheating on each other and keep their promises.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People should stop cheating on each other and keep their promises.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Plenty of Fish Dating (Plentyoffish.com) by eclectricities</title>
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		<dc:creator>eclectricities</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 02:17:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The following is a (mostly) objective review of PlentyofFish.com, written by a 24 year-old former user with reference to a sample of users ages 20-29 observed for approximately five months. The reviewer has been described as &quot;very good-looking;&quot; one user described the reviewer as the &quot;cutest (*insert gender here*) on the site.&quot;

I joined PlentyofFish.com because, to be perfectly honest, I&#039;ve had my nose to the academic grind for the past six years, and am now, post-graduation, finally getting back into the swing of social life. I thought PlentyofFish.com, and internet dating in general, might provide a fun and easy way to meet new singles, and make, at the least, some new friends. This is what I observed. 

In general, profiles were poorly constructed; most users in my age range (20-29) wrote an average of one paragraph (5-7 sentences) of self-description, and said descriptions were generally riddled with unattractive grammar errors (e.g., &quot;hi my name is ____ i like too party and chil with my friends sound good? plz write&quot;). 

Of the few extended, more well-written profiles, most were arguably narcissistic, and subsequently as unappealing. In general, extended content offered insight only into users&#039; opinions of themselves (as opposed to specific likes, dislikes, experiences, etc.); proper grammar correlated with verbosity. Curiously, these profiles were generally accompanied by a primary photo in which the user was not smiling. 

Regarding content, most profiles were strikingly similar, although this is likely a consequence of their general brevity. Most common likes included &quot;going out,&quot; and &quot;having fun.&quot; Most users expressed partiality to activities involving alcohol consumption. Most users were unsure of their reason for joining the site.  

Younger users (30) were more likely to present a multidimensional self-characterization. 

Many users, male and female, plainly state &quot;no creepers,&quot; etc. Many female users report receiving multitudes of sexually explicit and otherwise upsetting messages from male users, including photos of genitals and requests for sex. After numerous conversations with users, I can say with some confidence that male users with appropriate intentions may be greatly outnumbered by male users with inappropriate intentions.

In general, approximately 50-75% of users of both sexes appeared noticeably unhealthy. Female users most often presented photographs taken from a peculiar angle in which the user looks demurely up toward the camera held by the user above herself at arms length. The user&#039;s forehead and eyes appear greatly enlarged. The resultant photo resembles a space alien or toddler. Male users seem to think a picture is a picture; a photo of their nostrils&#039; interior might as well &quot;do the trick.&quot; 

The reviewer is pleased to note that s/he spoke with at least two superlative users over 30; however, the reviewer is 24, and does not feel inclined to date users older than 30.

Overall, with respect to users under 30, the site appears to be loaded with half-assed, often unappealing profiles written by individuals who a). would, honestly, rather be meeting people the old-fashioned way, b). seek mass adulation, and/or c). are already profoundly skeptical of online dating, none of which is conducive to establishing a single, worthwhile relationship via online dating. Thus, I cancelled my profile, and am now pursuing more traditional, actively social means of meeting friends and potential dates.    

In conclusion, based on the sample observed, the reviewer cannot recommend PlentyofFish.com for users under 30 who seek serious relationships. The reviewer might suggest that young singles continue to do what they have always done: get off the computer, volunteer, go to a church, go dancing, build a network of like-minded people who will introduce you to other like-minded people, and meet Mr./Miss Right face-to-face, in a context that you will both remember with fondness.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The following is a (mostly) objective review of PlentyofFish.com, written by a 24 year-old former user with reference to a sample of users ages 20-29 observed for approximately five months. The reviewer has been described as &#8220;very good-looking;&#8221; one user described the reviewer as the &#8220;cutest (*insert gender here*) on the site.&#8221;</p>
<p>I joined PlentyofFish.com because, to be perfectly honest, I&#8217;ve had my nose to the academic grind for the past six years, and am now, post-graduation, finally getting back into the swing of social life. I thought PlentyofFish.com, and internet dating in general, might provide a fun and easy way to meet new singles, and make, at the least, some new friends. This is what I observed. </p>
<p>In general, profiles were poorly constructed; most users in my age range (20-29) wrote an average of one paragraph (5-7 sentences) of self-description, and said descriptions were generally riddled with unattractive grammar errors (e.g., &#8220;hi my name is ____ i like too party and chil with my friends sound good? plz write&#8221;). </p>
<p>Of the few extended, more well-written profiles, most were arguably narcissistic, and subsequently as unappealing. In general, extended content offered insight only into users&#8217; opinions of themselves (as opposed to specific likes, dislikes, experiences, etc.); proper grammar correlated with verbosity. Curiously, these profiles were generally accompanied by a primary photo in which the user was not smiling. </p>
<p>Regarding content, most profiles were strikingly similar, although this is likely a consequence of their general brevity. Most common likes included &#8220;going out,&#8221; and &#8220;having fun.&#8221; Most users expressed partiality to activities involving alcohol consumption. Most users were unsure of their reason for joining the site.  </p>
<p>Younger users (30) were more likely to present a multidimensional self-characterization. </p>
<p>Many users, male and female, plainly state &#8220;no creepers,&#8221; etc. Many female users report receiving multitudes of sexually explicit and otherwise upsetting messages from male users, including photos of genitals and requests for sex. After numerous conversations with users, I can say with some confidence that male users with appropriate intentions may be greatly outnumbered by male users with inappropriate intentions.</p>
<p>In general, approximately 50-75% of users of both sexes appeared noticeably unhealthy. Female users most often presented photographs taken from a peculiar angle in which the user looks demurely up toward the camera held by the user above herself at arms length. The user&#8217;s forehead and eyes appear greatly enlarged. The resultant photo resembles a space alien or toddler. Male users seem to think a picture is a picture; a photo of their nostrils&#8217; interior might as well &#8220;do the trick.&#8221; </p>
<p>The reviewer is pleased to note that s/he spoke with at least two superlative users over 30; however, the reviewer is 24, and does not feel inclined to date users older than 30.</p>
<p>Overall, with respect to users under 30, the site appears to be loaded with half-assed, often unappealing profiles written by individuals who a). would, honestly, rather be meeting people the old-fashioned way, b). seek mass adulation, and/or c). are already profoundly skeptical of online dating, none of which is conducive to establishing a single, worthwhile relationship via online dating. Thus, I cancelled my profile, and am now pursuing more traditional, actively social means of meeting friends and potential dates.    </p>
<p>In conclusion, based on the sample observed, the reviewer cannot recommend PlentyofFish.com for users under 30 who seek serious relationships. The reviewer might suggest that young singles continue to do what they have always done: get off the computer, volunteer, go to a church, go dancing, build a network of like-minded people who will introduce you to other like-minded people, and meet Mr./Miss Right face-to-face, in a context that you will both remember with fondness.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Match.com Launches Free Dating Site (DowntoEarth.com) by Sally</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/match-launches-downtoearth/comment-page-1#comment-506</link>
		<dc:creator>Sally</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jan 2009 00:25:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry just to add a thumbs up for Markus. POF has done a lot to make the dating industry stop and think imo and when I think of POF I think of social networking rather than dating.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry just to add a thumbs up for Markus. POF has done a lot to make the dating industry stop and think imo and when I think of POF I think of social networking rather than dating.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Match.com Launches Free Dating Site (DowntoEarth.com) by Sally</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/match-launches-downtoearth/comment-page-1#comment-505</link>
		<dc:creator>Sally</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jan 2009 00:23:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t understand why match think their new rating system will creat trust with its members. Surely any decent scammer will just create a number of profiles and rate themselves very highly. To my mind that could backfire long term.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t understand why match think their new rating system will creat trust with its members. Surely any decent scammer will just create a number of profiles and rate themselves very highly. To my mind that could backfire long term.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Match.com Launches Free Dating Site (DowntoEarth.com) by European Dating Community</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/match-launches-downtoearth/comment-page-1#comment-504</link>
		<dc:creator>European Dating Community</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 18:37:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Paid dating sites have finally realized that free online dating is working and is the way to go. I believe social networking sites have paved the way for free sites.

EuropeanKiss.org is a totally free online dating community for single europeans in europe, canada and usa, which is secure, safe and fun with much more features than any dating site, paid or free.

We have introduced a community moderated system where upon registration, you must complete your profile and upload at least 1 photo and then wait for approval by users of the community, during which time you won’t be able to use the site. This is another security layer we have put into place which prevents incomplete profiles and spammers. We have setup a required number of votes and percentage to approve or reject profiles.

We also check IP address’s against a blacklist for spammers and have put into place the ability to report profile, messages and photo abuse.

Another feature we have introduced is “Certify that this user is Genuine”

If you have met a site member or you are sure for his/her existence and profile/photos, you can certify that this user is genuine. The number of users required to certify a user is set by the site administrator. After the required users have certified a user is genuine, a green check appears next to the user in every search result.

We have found many free dating sites are full of spammers and are poorly designed and want to change the way free dating sites are perceived.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Paid dating sites have finally realized that free online dating is working and is the way to go. I believe social networking sites have paved the way for free sites.</p>
<p>EuropeanKiss.org is a totally free online dating community for single europeans in europe, canada and usa, which is secure, safe and fun with much more features than any dating site, paid or free.</p>
<p>We have introduced a community moderated system where upon registration, you must complete your profile and upload at least 1 photo and then wait for approval by users of the community, during which time you won’t be able to use the site. This is another security layer we have put into place which prevents incomplete profiles and spammers. We have setup a required number of votes and percentage to approve or reject profiles.</p>
<p>We also check IP address’s against a blacklist for spammers and have put into place the ability to report profile, messages and photo abuse.</p>
<p>Another feature we have introduced is “Certify that this user is Genuine”</p>
<p>If you have met a site member or you are sure for his/her existence and profile/photos, you can certify that this user is genuine. The number of users required to certify a user is set by the site administrator. After the required users have certified a user is genuine, a green check appears next to the user in every search result.</p>
<p>We have found many free dating sites are full of spammers and are poorly designed and want to change the way free dating sites are perceived.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Perfectmatch.com Review (Perfectmatch) by NANCY M. TAVETA</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/perfectmatch/comment-page-1#comment-492</link>
		<dc:creator>NANCY M. TAVETA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2009 09:04:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I LOVE IT .HOPE I&#039;LL GET MY SOULMATE</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I LOVE IT .HOPE I&#8217;LL GET MY SOULMATE</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Mind Over Matter</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-457</link>
		<dc:creator>Mind Over Matter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 09:11:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Anybody who cheats should kill him/herself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anybody who cheats should kill him/herself.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Lavalife.com Review (Lavalife) by A life without love is worthless</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/lavalife/comment-page-1#comment-455</link>
		<dc:creator>A life without love is worthless</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 17:34:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love u guys</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love u guys</p>
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		<title>Comment on 100% Free Dating Sites &#8211; Really? by Julia</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/free-dating-sites/comment-page-1#comment-452</link>
		<dc:creator>Julia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:26:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I joined this free site last year and really like it.  They have lots of features like forums and articles, and a cool matching system.  Their service is pretty good too, I received a reply within 6 hours of posting a question.  I&#039;d recommend it to anyone looking for a good quality free dating site.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I joined this free site last year and really like it.  They have lots of features like forums and articles, and a cool matching system.  Their service is pretty good too, I received a reply within 6 hours of posting a question.  I&#8217;d recommend it to anyone looking for a good quality free dating site.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Match.com Launches Free Dating Site (DowntoEarth.com) by admin</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/match-launches-downtoearth/comment-page-1#comment-448</link>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 02:32:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You and I both know that pay dating site users churn out after about 3.5 months and most of them don&#039;t become paying users again but that is the natural cycle of the biz. If Match.com has been losing subscribers year over year (not confirmed though) then it is more likely caused by eHarmony&#039;s growth and them taking deals like the AOL Personals from them. Singlesnet is a pay service and they have done some shady practices with lead-gen companies this past year on Google and through email to get to where they are now. Read up on all of the consumer complaints on them and you&#039;ll be surprised that they are still in business. Your traffic and growth is real and you have been fulfilling a niche for new users coming onto the online dating scene where they can test drive internet dating and figure out whether they are interested in paying for a premium service. Your CPC ads in Google, great PR, and SEO have brought you passed critical mass to where you can float on word of mouth the same way Jdate has for years now. Free dating and Plenty of Fish go hand in hand. I personally think you are in a great position this year to make a lot more noise. If I were you I would be having some strategic conversations with some of the big boys in doing a partnership with one of them. Yahoo Personals ran free for years and so did Excite&#039;s Classifieds 2000 long before POF came along the scene and the best partnerships and advertisers were the pay sites. I wouldn&#039;t rely on non-dating ads for future revenue as that side of the industry is in a slump at least for the next 8 months.

-Brian R.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You and I both know that pay dating site users churn out after about 3.5 months and most of them don&#8217;t become paying users again but that is the natural cycle of the biz. If Match.com has been losing subscribers year over year (not confirmed though) then it is more likely caused by eHarmony&#8217;s growth and them taking deals like the AOL Personals from them. Singlesnet is a pay service and they have done some shady practices with lead-gen companies this past year on Google and through email to get to where they are now. Read up on all of the consumer complaints on them and you&#8217;ll be surprised that they are still in business. Your traffic and growth is real and you have been fulfilling a niche for new users coming onto the online dating scene where they can test drive internet dating and figure out whether they are interested in paying for a premium service. Your CPC ads in Google, great PR, and SEO have brought you passed critical mass to where you can float on word of mouth the same way Jdate has for years now. Free dating and Plenty of Fish go hand in hand. I personally think you are in a great position this year to make a lot more noise. If I were you I would be having some strategic conversations with some of the big boys in doing a partnership with one of them. Yahoo Personals ran free for years and so did Excite&#8217;s Classifieds 2000 long before POF came along the scene and the best partnerships and advertisers were the pay sites. I wouldn&#8217;t rely on non-dating ads for future revenue as that side of the industry is in a slump at least for the next 8 months.</p>
<p>-Brian R.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Match.com Launches Free Dating Site (DowntoEarth.com) by Markus</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/match-launches-downtoearth/comment-page-1#comment-447</link>
		<dc:creator>Markus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 00:06:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Come on  Plentyoffish isn&#039;t that bad...

The industry is a 0 sum game...    Free sites take away from paid sites period.      Industry traffic has been  1.25% of online traffic for the past few years,   yet  in the past 2 years POF and singlesnet have gone from nowhere to  40% of US dating traffic.    Match.com has lost a lot of US subscribers year over year and so has American singles and yahoo personals and all the others.   Those users aren&#039;t going to ever pay again...   As for revenues,  non dating ads pay more than dating ads...   So long term free sites won&#039;t be advertising paid dating sites anyways.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Come on  Plentyoffish isn&#8217;t that bad&#8230;</p>
<p>The industry is a 0 sum game&#8230;    Free sites take away from paid sites period.      Industry traffic has been  1.25% of online traffic for the past few years,   yet  in the past 2 years POF and singlesnet have gone from nowhere to  40% of US dating traffic.    Match.com has lost a lot of US subscribers year over year and so has American singles and yahoo personals and all the others.   Those users aren&#8217;t going to ever pay again&#8230;   As for revenues,  non dating ads pay more than dating ads&#8230;   So long term free sites won&#8217;t be advertising paid dating sites anyways.</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by ian trent</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-432</link>
		<dc:creator>ian trent</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2009 04:16:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>my girlfriend cheated on me. I never really had trust in her anymore after that but I still love her. But I know it will never be the same</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>my girlfriend cheated on me. I never really had trust in her anymore after that but I still love her. But I know it will never be the same</p>
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		<title>Comment on White Label Dating Technology by Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/white-label-dating-technology/comment-page-1#comment-430</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Dec 2008 15:16:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello, could you tell me if there is any white label solution in the market where you are able to fully customise the language. I have not found it so far, and the problem is that the ones in the market are all right for the english market but not for the rest. In case you know of any, please let me know. Thank You and best regards.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello, could you tell me if there is any white label solution in the market where you are able to fully customise the language. I have not found it so far, and the problem is that the ones in the market are all right for the english market but not for the rest. In case you know of any, please let me know. Thank You and best regards.</p>
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		<title>Comment on FriendFinder Networks IPO by Theory</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/friendfinder-networks-ipo/comment-page-1#comment-424</link>
		<dc:creator>Theory</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2008 10:25:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just read that Various neglected to collect taxes in the EU on their prospectus. The company says: 

&quot;After our acquisition of Various, we became aware that Various and its subsidiaries had not collected VAT from subscribers in the European Union nor had Various remitted VAT to the tax jurisdictions requiring it. We have since registered with the tax authorities of the applicable jurisdictions and have begun collecting VAT from our subscribers in the European Union and remitting it as required.&quot;

I would hold off on putting any cash down on this stock until they clear their debt and any misc. things from the Various acquisition. The IPO is also underwritten by Renaissance Capital, which is based in Moscow. Not exactly your typical Morgan Stanley or Goldman Sachs type companies but I can see that the adult nature of this transaction would keep the conservative companies out of the game for sure.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just read that Various neglected to collect taxes in the EU on their prospectus. The company says: </p>
<p>&#8220;After our acquisition of Various, we became aware that Various and its subsidiaries had not collected VAT from subscribers in the European Union nor had Various remitted VAT to the tax jurisdictions requiring it. We have since registered with the tax authorities of the applicable jurisdictions and have begun collecting VAT from our subscribers in the European Union and remitting it as required.&#8221;</p>
<p>I would hold off on putting any cash down on this stock until they clear their debt and any misc. things from the Various acquisition. The IPO is also underwritten by Renaissance Capital, which is based in Moscow. Not exactly your typical Morgan Stanley or Goldman Sachs type companies but I can see that the adult nature of this transaction would keep the conservative companies out of the game for sure.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Top Dating Sites List by Night Chat</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/top-dating-sites-list/comment-page-1#comment-422</link>
		<dc:creator>Night Chat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2008 07:54:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You should definitely include http://www.ustillup.com - Late Night Hook Up</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You should definitely include <a href="http://www.ustillup.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.ustillup.com</a> &#8211; Late Night Hook Up</p>
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		<title>Comment on White Label Dating Technology by adam</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/white-label-dating-technology/comment-page-1#comment-411</link>
		<dc:creator>adam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Dec 2008 00:52:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>what do need to do to become an affilate to white label dating? where is the  header hosted etc who is responsible for any customer disatisfaction they need me to do a custom header and footer if so i can do this but i`m puzzled by it all what do i do exactly??</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>what do need to do to become an affilate to white label dating? where is the  header hosted etc who is responsible for any customer disatisfaction they need me to do a custom header and footer if so i can do this but i`m puzzled by it all what do i do exactly??</p>
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		<title>Comment on Top Dating Sites List by asiandude</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/top-dating-sites-list/comment-page-1#comment-384</link>
		<dc:creator>asiandude</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Dec 2008 23:34:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This indeed seems to cover all main stream dating sites, I wouldn&#039;t include craigslist though:)  good job!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This indeed seems to cover all main stream dating sites, I wouldn&#8217;t include craigslist though:)  good job!</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by isaac</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/what-do-you-do-if-your-lover-cheats-on-you/comment-page-1#comment-377</link>
		<dc:creator>isaac</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Dec 2008 18:49:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Sirs,

I&#039;m only 12 and I just got told that my girlfriend kissed someone else while playing a game of dares and I just feel exposed and betrayed and I don&#039;t know what to do. I know it was a dare and I&#039;m sure she didn&#039;t mean it but he was older and that just leaves me worried that he might come back and try get more than she bargained for and hurt her or something and I&#039;m just worried sick. Please write back or email me with an answer to my dilemmas.  

-Isaac</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Sirs,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m only 12 and I just got told that my girlfriend kissed someone else while playing a game of dares and I just feel exposed and betrayed and I don&#8217;t know what to do. I know it was a dare and I&#8217;m sure she didn&#8217;t mean it but he was older and that just leaves me worried that he might come back and try get more than she bargained for and hurt her or something and I&#8217;m just worried sick. Please write back or email me with an answer to my dilemmas.  </p>
<p>-Isaac</p>
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		<title>Comment on Gay.com Review (Gay) by frederic loius</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/gay-personals/comment-page-1#comment-296</link>
		<dc:creator>frederic loius</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Dec 2008 11:11:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>what a wonderful development!
i never knew something of this is in existence.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>what a wonderful development!<br />
i never knew something of this is in existence.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Gay.com Review (Gay) by NativeNYker</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/gay-personals/comment-page-1#comment-289</link>
		<dc:creator>NativeNYker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Nov 2008 00:07:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would have to agree.  I had a Gay.com profile and made the decision not to renew as a result of all the &quot;upgrades&quot; that had been made to the system.  It&#039;s a shame...they were one of the better sites around.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would have to agree.  I had a Gay.com profile and made the decision not to renew as a result of all the &#8220;upgrades&#8221; that had been made to the system.  It&#8217;s a shame&#8230;they were one of the better sites around.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Lavalife.com Review (Lavalife) by fanta jallo</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/lavalife/comment-page-1#comment-284</link>
		<dc:creator>fanta jallo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 11:33:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>is a goodsite</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>is a goodsite</p>
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		<title>Comment on Gay.com Review (Gay) by bv</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/gay-personals/comment-page-1#comment-264</link>
		<dc:creator>bv</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Nov 2008 06:23:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gay.com was a wonderful service till it was &quot;upgraded&quot; in September 08.  Since the upgrade many of the previously working services ceased to work.  The upgrade appeared to have been poorly tested and poorly conceived, resulting in a &quot;beta tester&quot; experience for paying members. As a result members have been fleeing the site left and right.  Gay.com today is a shell of its former self with less than an a third of its active members previously.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gay.com was a wonderful service till it was &#8220;upgraded&#8221; in September 08.  Since the upgrade many of the previously working services ceased to work.  The upgrade appeared to have been poorly tested and poorly conceived, resulting in a &#8220;beta tester&#8221; experience for paying members. As a result members have been fleeing the site left and right.  Gay.com today is a shell of its former self with less than an a third of its active members previously.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Personality Tests. Do They Work? by Paul</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/personality-tests/comment-page-1#comment-260</link>
		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 21:01:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Personality tests can be very effective. Just be honest with yourself when filling it out. Dont be tempted to answer questions in a way that you think might make you more interesting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Personality tests can be very effective. Just be honest with yourself when filling it out. Dont be tempted to answer questions in a way that you think might make you more interesting.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Online Dating Traffic Trends by Night Chat</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/online-dating-traffic-trends/comment-page-1#comment-251</link>
		<dc:creator>Night Chat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 22:48:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great article.  Keep up the great work!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Adult Dating Services by admin</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/adult-dating-services/comment-page-1#comment-203</link>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 00:54:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Glad to hear that SexSearch worked out for you. Was it an escort or a real member from the site?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Glad to hear that SexSearch worked out for you. Was it an escort or a real member from the site?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Adult Dating Services by admin</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/adult-dating-services/comment-page-1#comment-202</link>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 00:53:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ClubTripleX.com looks like they recently launched. They are hosted on an IP address which seems a little bit shady but they could be waiting for some DNS issues to take from their hosting service. If you don&#039;t want to get recurring bills from these sites then you might want to just choose the 6-month or 1-year option when you go to pay which usually ends up being cheaper in the long run. You can do a one-year and then cancel the rebilling portion so you don&#039;t get billed after the membership is up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ClubTripleX.com looks like they recently launched. They are hosted on an IP address which seems a little bit shady but they could be waiting for some DNS issues to take from their hosting service. If you don&#8217;t want to get recurring bills from these sites then you might want to just choose the 6-month or 1-year option when you go to pay which usually ends up being cheaper in the long run. You can do a one-year and then cancel the rebilling portion so you don&#8217;t get billed after the membership is up.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Adult Dating Services by grolsch</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/adult-dating-services/comment-page-1#comment-201</link>
		<dc:creator>grolsch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 21:03:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>anyone familiar with this site?  They seem legit, but it&#039;s so hard to tell.  I don&#039;t mind a charge, but am looking for a site that won&#039;t keep charging I the account is cancelled.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>anyone familiar with this site?  They seem legit, but it&#8217;s so hard to tell.  I don&#8217;t mind a charge, but am looking for a site that won&#8217;t keep charging I the account is cancelled.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Keeping Your Relationship Fresh by ojiestudent</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/keeping-your-relationship-fresh/comment-page-1#comment-188</link>
		<dc:creator>ojiestudent</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Nov 2008 07:45:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>so cooooooooooooool</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>so cooooooooooooool</p>
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		<title>Comment on White Label Dating Technology by admin</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/white-label-dating-technology/comment-page-1#comment-179</link>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 18:24:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You have a good domain but might want to be careful that you don&#039;t get mixed up in a trademark dispute as there is another company called &quot;A Foreign Affair&quot; that has been online since the mid-90s. Here is the page that you can contact TangoWire: http://tangowire.net/Partners/Help/ContactUs

They can handle all of your customer service and billing and have a pretty healthy database for each niche they service.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have a good domain but might want to be careful that you don&#8217;t get mixed up in a trademark dispute as there is another company called &#8220;A Foreign Affair&#8221; that has been online since the mid-90s. Here is the page that you can contact TangoWire: <a href="http://tangowire.net/Partners/Help/ContactUs" rel="nofollow">http://tangowire.net/Partners/Help/ContactUs</a></p>
<p>They can handle all of your customer service and billing and have a pretty healthy database for each niche they service.</p>
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		<title>Comment on White Label Dating Technology by Kai Gram</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/white-label-dating-technology/comment-page-1#comment-174</link>
		<dc:creator>Kai Gram</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 02:32:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m interested in becoming afilliated with TangoWire.  The above URL belongs to me.  However, I would need for them to  handle all billing and customer service related issues and an easy to use customizable template to setup my home page.  I saw your Military-Singles home page and it is very much to my liking.  Please advise as to how I can partner with TangoWire.  Thanks
Kai</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m interested in becoming afilliated with TangoWire.  The above URL belongs to me.  However, I would need for them to  handle all billing and customer service related issues and an easy to use customizable template to setup my home page.  I saw your Military-Singles home page and it is very much to my liking.  Please advise as to how I can partner with TangoWire.  Thanks<br />
Kai</p>
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		<title>Comment on Adult Dating Services by DruZ</title>
		<link>http://www.lovesites.com/adult-dating-services/comment-page-1#comment-173</link>
		<dc:creator>DruZ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 00:22:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>joined sexsearch and got laid with a hot girl on halloween.

site also has a hot bikini girl on site 24/7 to help you join!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>joined sexsearch and got laid with a hot girl on halloween.</p>
<p>site also has a hot bikini girl on site 24/7 to help you join!</p>
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