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Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Tue, 29 Nov 2011 02:16:06 +0000

Well Erika, this one is a pretty complicated relationship. I have mixed feelings but think that you should try to distance yourself a little while you see how he is going to react to the other girls decision to have his baby. The truth of the situation is that if they have the baby in 7 mos. that you will always have to deal with this situation and have interactions with her since that is 1/2 his child. He has no excuse at all for being drunk and not knowing what he was doing. If he had been on a date with her before then he definitely had interest in her and was attracted to her physically. If I was you, I would tell him that you want some space for him to be able to sort out his situation he put himself in and you should start dating other people even in a casual sense. Go out and hang out with your friends and other guys to see if you can get your mind off of him and if you are able to connect to someone else then you should pursue that path instead of being caught in the middle of this potential mess. Your parents sometimes have a sixth sense even if you don’t want to accept that.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Erika

Erika — Sun, 13 Nov 2011 04:51:57 +0000

Well I found out my boyfriend of almost 4 years was cheating on me. The girl he was cheating with was the one to hint out to me something was going on and told me to ask him why she was so concerned about him and me. I found out he had started liking this girl a month before and had taken her out on a date. He said he didn’t know how to tell me which is why he hadn’t said anything about breaking up. Then I found out that one night he had gotten drunk and his friend and him went to her house. She was drunk too and my bf and her ended up having sex without a condom. We’re both 19 and he is now expecting a child from her. He hadn’t even remembered what he did that night before his friend told him the next day. His friend now regrets not saying anything to my bf in order to stop him from having sex. My bf said he was sorry and wanted nothing but to be together. He just couldn’t stand being with me if my parents were always going to be so judgmental (he was right on that. They were constantly telling him what to and criticizing him on how he acted. I constantly had to tell him my parents didn’t like that he was too quiet and stuff. He made the effort to meet their standards, and when he did, they would then say he wasn’t doing something else right). But the fact that that whole month he didn’t say anything is killing me. And the problem is that I can’t get over him. I still want to be with him! He regrets all that he did and hates himself for it (he even talked about suicide because he hated how much he hurt me), but he also doesn’t want to abandon his baby. He is keeping in contact with the mother only because he still wants to be a part of his child’s life (she had threatened to keep the child away from him so he had to act all nice to her so she’d allow him to see the child). She’s probably 4 weeks pregnant and I’ve been old by others that miscarriages can happen soon. I don’t want to sound horrible when I say I hope this child doesn’t come out but i can’t help it. I have no hatred towards this baby but I just don’t want it coming out now. I’d give my bf a second chance if there was no baby, but since there is he’s untouchable to me. I want to be with him so badly and he wants to be with me but the baby is a huge reality check on what’s happening. Help!

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Sat, 29 Oct 2011 15:12:02 +0000

John – My best advice to you is to break up with her and let her learn a lesson now. She will think this is acceptable relationship behavior if you don’t. You might love her today but have so many options at your age right now that by pushing her away and not being angry it’ll probably in the end make her want you back more. If you take her back you’ll need to fully forgive her for what she did while you were apart of the relationship will never work.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by John Power

John Power — Sat, 29 Oct 2011 02:28:06 +0000

My gf and I were dating for 2 and a half years, since halfway through grade 9. She’s had a couple of times where she’s been really close to cheating on me with some other guy but hasn’t. This summer we were apart and she went on a 2 week trip and within the first week found a guy, and slept with him multiple times. Then, when she returned she slept with another guy. I don’t know what to do. We’re almost about to break up right now. I think this is the right thing to do, but I don’t know. She was my first kiss, first for everything and I love her. But things are never gonna be the same, and I know I won’t be able to forgive her for that. Especially since throughout the summer there was multiple chances for me to cheat, but I didn’t because of her. Turns out she didn’t.

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by phil

phil — Sat, 17 Sep 2011 04:00:08 +0000

zoosk sucks i clicked 10 profiles one after another off my search and got 6 messages within 2 minutes all computer generated, most all of them said thanks for the wink tell me more, and when i winked i made sure they were not online but still got responses within 2 minutes, i called for a refund and after telling them that nobody will return my call

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by FlaniganCorcoran

FlaniganCorcoran — Sun, 28 Aug 2011 02:26:17 +0000

After reading some of the comments, I find that I am not alone in my dissappointment with the website Zoosk.com.

It is a rip-off. The customer service is terrible. They will bounce you for reasons they make up and yet others continue to exist which are obvious violations to their policies. I should have read the reviews before I signed up 7 days ago and now I am regretting ever signing up. Classmates.com was sued in a class action lawsuit. Maybe it is time for the same thing to happen to Zoosk.

Please, anyone reading this, if you haven’t already signed up for Zoosk DON’T. For those of you who have, I am sorry. But just think, someone, somewhere will file a lawsuit and all those who were unsatisfied can join in to bankrupt the owners of the site.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Ben

Ben — Fri, 12 Aug 2011 15:49:51 +0000

I found out my girlfriend cheated on me she said it was because the guy was high and would of hurt her if she didn’t! She kissed him and gave him head! Because of this I dont know if I can ever kiss her again know someone else junk what there! To make things worse throughout our relationship she has told me she doesnt want to do anything sexual but now I find out she did with another guy! What do I do! I would love some help! I still love her but I don’t know if she still loves me!

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by john

john — Wed, 10 Aug 2011 15:59:20 +0000

my girlfirend cheated on me with an ex boyfriend. i wanna kill him. i was with her for 2 years then one night i called her and called her she didnt pick up phone she was at his house. so in the end i just want to kill him so it wont happen again.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Luke

Luke — Wed, 03 Aug 2011 02:24:06 +0000

Hey guys and gals, yeah i found out from my girlfriends cousin and friend that she sextin another guy, i need answers on what to do asap

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 03 Aug 2011 02:00:09 +0000

ok i have been with my girlfriend for 7 months now. After a few months she is at a Uni/college party, while im at work. i call her after and she is drunk and tells me she didnt somthing i might not be too happy about. she gave a guy a topless lap-dance and did a nudy run with a few other people as it was a point system and she earned her team points by doing it. she asked me to travles to see her (the uni is about 2 hours away), it was already 11pm, i had work the next day and i didnt want to see her after that so i told her and she got angry at me. After waiting 30 mins at home i couldnt sleep so i drove all the way up there and found her passed out naked in her room under the covers with the door unlocked. i asked a few of her dorm mates and they told me they saw some guys coming out of her room, i still dont know what happend that night. she said she cant remember any guys coming in her room, i managed to forgive her for that night and move on

a few months later she starts bringing up her recent ex-boyfriend alot (once or twice a day). just talking about experiences they have had together (not sexual). i was uncomfortable about hearing it that often, it made me feel like she was still in love with him and i was just a fill in to make her feel better. i told her and she said she loves me and could never go back to him becasue he cheated on her. One night i finished work early, i called her as we organized for a night in watching movies cos she was depressed. she was at her ex-boyfriends house trying to get drunk and apparently he kissed her. i almost broke up with her because of this but i still loved her and knew if i did break up at that point i would regret it. After that she doesnt talk to/about him as much now and i trust her on that.

After these two events i lost alot of trust for her. Then i find out a month ago she cheated on me at a party we went together. to start off with she kissed a friend who is gay agaisnt his will because she was drunk and thought it would be funny. i was drinking also, i got upset with her and went to my car to sleep because i felt hurt. she came and found me in the car and put me in a sleeping bag inside the house. then she went to talk with the guy that helped her move me inside. they went to his car and somehow had sex for a few minutes then she said she stopped. i didnt not find it out until 4 weeks after the party, she came clean. i love her so much, i dont want to break up with her and i know she loves me and wants to be with me. i just dont think i can trust her ever again. i havn’t broke up with her yet because i cant do it and i dont want to do it. somtimes i feel like i should, its haunting me everyday.

Everytime im with her i feel so happy, as soon as im alone my mind brings up a visual of what happend and how she brang herself to do that to me. i know the logical answer seems to be to break up with her. she has a history of 3 exboyfriends and about a 6 month gap in her life where she slept with alot of random guys to make her feel better because she came out of a bad relationship. i dont want to see her go down that light again as i still care for her so much. would appreciate some advice

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by michael

michael — Sat, 23 Jul 2011 13:06:02 +0000

So I’ve read a few of these and they all sound pretty bad but I think my situation takes the trophy (that trophy nobody wants).
I had been dating a girl for the last three years of high school. We had both been through so much together and I really thought that nothing could tear us apart or cloud our relationship. We were on the first day of a weeklong trip with my family when she told me that this guy I knew she

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by marty vaughan

marty vaughan — Fri, 22 Jul 2011 03:41:43 +0000

hi there, um my girl, the girl of my dreams, dating for 3 years and have never had a problem ever, always happy with eachother cheated on me 6 nights ago. it was pretty much the first guy i trusted fully to go out with her and not try somthing on so i was not worring as she said by see you later and went out the door that night, this guy has a ph.d in the degree shes studing and they went out for a drink to talk about work and getting a position for her. she called me crying the next day and told me what happened, no intercourse, but oral sex happened. she tells me that she got mixed up with mental and physical attraction and they were both blind drunk. the most gutting part is that she’s the one who wanted it. she got in his taxi at the end of the night after she told me she doesnt need a ride home anymore and had a mate who would drop her off . (head full of alcahol doesnt help) it happened sat night and on sunday she told me when she got home. the worst thing is that i cant just go over to this guys house and pull him to pieces because hes not the one to blame. she made the moves. i took a day to think about the situation, and as i love her with all my heart and knew she was sorry, i decided to give her a get out of jail free card and told her i just want her back in my arms. people make mistakes after all. thats when the worst thing happened. after all that thinking , getting over it with all those emotions, she decided to dump me as soon as i said i want her back and that she doesnt no if she loves me as much as she thought she did before she did it. she says she doesnt no herself at the moment and that she needs to go to church. she told me to give her time , but all i want is my baby back , ive forgiven her and cant stop thinking about her. i keep texting her telling her that its ok and that i love her but its just making it worse, pushing her away, but i cant stand not doing anything, she means evrything to me. i just want her back. i know she loves me but she doesnt. its now friday and ive slept a total of ten hours since sat night, with work all this week. , 8 hour movies going through my head in vivid detail of her sucking this guys c**k all night. i cant get to sleep and cry more than i dont cry during the day. i just needed to tell people who know how im feeling about this, im scared at what i might do to myself. i dont want the other fish in the sea, i just want us back, its the happiest feeling ive ever felt when we were together and now im hollow. i could literally feel a big chunk of my heart missing. i cant forget about it.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Charlie

Charlie — Tue, 19 Jul 2011 08:48:40 +0000

So i just found out that my girlfriend kisse abother guy but it wasnt really her fault.. The other guy kissed her first and she just stood there letting him continue to kiss you. I want to give her a secod chance but i dont know of i can trust her again.. What should i do? Give her a second chance or break up with her..
-Charlie

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Joy

Joy — Sun, 17 Jul 2011 05:27:34 +0000

Hi,

We were madly in love and made lots of promises, she got in the best MBA college and was studying there for 2 yrs and we have long distance relation, i was working in another city but we used to talk regularly, i used to send her gifts, wait for her call as she was busy studying all night, helped her, never said no for anything. We planned to loose our virginity on a special day with the best planned romantic night on our wedding night. It was my 1st & best relationship. then suddenly she started behaving strangely, less call less ‘i love u’ words etc. after she got a offer from the biggest firm in the country, she went for a trip with friends, she didnt had money, so i helped her with that, while she was on trip she asked me to check her mails and gave me her password, i was shocked to see that she has been in a relation with another guy of her college for more than a year and I found everything through her sex chat and mails.

That night was the longest night for me. I didnt sleep , after 2 months i again hacked in and found out that she was sleeping and doing all nasty stuff. I am Mad now and sleep and concentrate on my work. I thought that time will heal it but No, its increasing day by day, and now I want to kill both of them. I cant see them togather now. I hate guys n girls, I hate sex and i cant trust anyone now.

How can a person love you and break your trust and sleep with another guy.

Joy

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by terribly depressed

terribly depressed — Thu, 07 Jul 2011 15:10:33 +0000

well its a long story… my gf of 9 years cheated on me 2 months ago and i just found out from the guy last night, i proposed to her and all and she accepted but when i talked to him he told me everything that they did and im sooo hurt, we did a 3 way phone call and he asked her if she was with me and she said no (which is a lie) and when we confronted her she got quiet and I called her and she admitted but only because she got caught, the guy said he is done with her (which was a 12 hr drive for her to go see him) and she said that she wont do it to me again but i obvously still love her but I dont know If I can trust her ever again, she said we wernt together at the time but I dont recall us splitting up so she did cheat on me, the guy appologized to me because he knew about me but she had told him lies to get him to hate me and believe her he did not know that we where still together, im glad he manned up and told me but now im torn up very bad and I dont know if i can believe her or trust her ever again, to make matters worst she said she had a miscarriage and it was his because they didnt use protection every time they did stuff for that week and he told me that she had planned on giving him the ipod i gave her and was paying his cell phone bill and paid for the motel where he was at and was plan on having a threesome with him with a friend of hers and was planning on maybe seeing him on his bday in aug (although i doubt thats going to happen now seeing how he knows and I know) but yea, im torn up and I am 25 years old and she is 24 and she is my one and only sex partner and up untill now i thought it was the same so i feel like we had something special but when i think about it im sick to my stomach, i called in work today because i did not get any sleep last night i need immediate help i deff plan on asking for my 1,000 dollar ring back but I dont know whether to end the relationship or make things work, she was playing us both and I neve expected this from her ever but I noticed she started being sneaky which made me aware, we are going through a rough time and moved seperate and then going to counceling to try to make things work and then she does this to me a week or 2 after she moved out… but she told him last night and i heard her that we wernt together then we busted her, so Im not sure on if she can be trusted or not or what to do, plz plz plz plz help :’( i feel like im not worth anything and very depressed even while im on antidepressants

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by carry

carry — Mon, 04 Jul 2011 19:27:29 +0000

my girl fren cheat on mi two months n she didnt tell mi untill two months after she fuck the boy two time and shes beggin me to forgiver her whst should i do i need help.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Robby

Robby — Fri, 01 Jul 2011 16:13:42 +0000

My girlfriend went to go hang out with a friend from school alone just her and him. She assured me that I had nothing to worry about and if he tried anything she wouldn’t let it happen. A couple days later I find out she slept with him. She says that it meant nothing and that she was forced into it. She says that she wished it never happened. But to be honest I can’t look at her the same and everytime I touch her I think of him. She wants to still be together and I still love her. It just hurts. A lot.I’m not sure what I should do. Ideas?

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Very Hurt

Very Hurt — Sun, 26 Jun 2011 23:34:45 +0000

hi i found out today by going on my girlfriends facebook that shes been seeing 2 guys behind my back and im so angry and hurt im scared im gonna do something bad, i cant talk to her coz shes on holiday and she works with these 2 guys and i dont know what to do i feel like a piece of me has died. plz help me.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by samantha

samantha — Tue, 07 Jun 2011 13:50:27 +0000

im 17 years old, and im falling in love with the guy im dating, there has been 3 girls that have wrote me on facebook and said he is cheating on me since day one. i had asked him about it and everytime i ask about it he says he dont know them, or never talked to them. im madly in love with him and dont wanna loss him, please help me!!!

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Unknown

Unknown — Mon, 06 Jun 2011 13:49:39 +0000

Cheating doesn’t make sense. My girlfriend of 7 months deccided to makeout with her ex yet she insists she wants to be with me and has no feelings for him at all.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Jocelyne

Jocelyne — Fri, 03 Jun 2011 19:07:13 +0000

I’m 15 years old, and I know that’s pretty young to be in love. But I am. I don’t know, maybe I think I am. Everyone tells me that 15 is so young, that I don’t even know what love is. I’m not sure I believe them. I’m bisexual, and I’ve been going out with a girl I met in school earlier this year, named Sam. We put six months into our relationship, but not without fights scattered here and there. She has always been jealous that I liked this other guy, even though I didn’t, and I told her that I would never want anyone but her. I was fully aware that she had a crush on this other girl, and I hated how she was always talking about her, and choosing to spend time with her instead of me. They would sleep over each others houses all the time, and that really made me mad, because its not that I didn’t trust Sam, it’s that I didn’t trust the other girl. Three days ago, Sam broke up with me, saying that even though she loves me, she’s not happy, and she thinks I put no effort into the relationship, and that we’re not going anywhere. This upset me, but I honestly kind of saw it coming. With all the time she was spending with Amelia, the girl that she likes, I just saw no hope left for the relationship, and I knew it wasn’t going to work out. Today, I found out from someone at my school that Sam had kissed Amelia while she and I were dating, about a month ago, and she didn’t tell me. Something similar to this has happened before, too, about four months into our relationship, she had kissed this girl Gaby, ans she told me about it, and apologized. We talked it out, and everything was okay. But now I find out about Amelia, a month later after we’ve already broken up. I still love her with all my heart, but I know can’t trust her anymore.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by C.J.

C.J. — Sat, 28 May 2011 15:15:57 +0000

hi, i have been with my girlfriend for 2 years. we had an unhealthy realtionship and she was always mad at me. One night i picked her up to hang out and she was screaming at me. So she told me to drop her off at her house where a party was going on. Later on she told me that she had sex witth someone on my football team. . I am broken. I don’t know what to do cuz I love her but I feel like the firl I love is turning into a hoe, and I dont know what to do cuz I love her, but she ruined me and all my plans that I wanted with her. Please help

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by shaun

shaun — Sun, 22 May 2011 00:23:38 +0000

they don’t even take money orders?

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by richard

richard — Thu, 12 May 2011 04:42:39 +0000

the instant chat ‘add friend’ feature doesn’t work as i added SO many people and got less than half a percent accept rate. i also agree with the comment about the automated wink reply that can get you to initially subscribe thinking that you have a genuine email when in actual fact you don’t.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by confuseed

confuseed — Sun, 24 Apr 2011 03:26:27 +0000

i just don’t understand how you can give everything to a person and they can just cheat and lie to your face.. why cant i get a nice loving commited boyfriend.. someone help me find a guy..i hate being alone..

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by confuseed

confuseed — Sun, 24 Apr 2011 03:22:30 +0000

so i wrote saying on april 5, 2011 that my b4 did all that and i said either change for me or im done cuz i dont wanna go through all this many times one way enough. and he said ohh ill change and then over the weeks he has shoen it and i hung out with him and he proposed to me which was what i wanted from him and the moment i said yes cuz i was soo happy and everything but idk if its the right choice im 17 and so is he but how do i know he will keep changing for me? i jus want someone to tel me what to do.. i have making decisions..and i love him with everything but i jus member all the stuff he has done and i cry and hate him so much. and normally him and i would fight everyday and we havent fought for a couple of weeks. is this jus a temporary thing? or r guys capable of changing for good?.. help me please

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Thu, 21 Apr 2011 17:31:34 +0000

This is a tough one since you have a child together and it involves other family members. First off your brother should have know better and it is awful that he would betray your trust – like your fiancee. As hard as it might be I’d try and get them all together and talk this over. You need to find out if your fiancee is truly wanting to be with you and raise your daughter together. Remember that children should be brought up in a healthy environment.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Thu, 21 Apr 2011 17:27:18 +0000

Time to move on!!!

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Thu, 21 Apr 2011 17:26:58 +0000

Look like the writing is on the wall – ‘this isnt the first time he left me for 2 girls b4 and made out with both of them and kissed his ex’. Seems like this guy is not ready to commit and if that is what you want to do then I would start looking else where. Spend time concentrating on work or school and you will soon see that there are more things important than trying to please someone else.

Comment on Dating For Seniors by Juan Cho

Juan Cho — Thu, 21 Apr 2011 15:52:43 +0000

Reaching a certain age certainly doesn’t mean we lose the twinkle in our eye. The media often presents a glamorous image of dating, full of whirlwind romances for twentysomethings. As a mature singleton, it’s easy to feel daunted by the dating scene. Well, you’ll be relieved to know that the older generation is becoming a major part of it now our clients are finding that dating can be a fun, exhilarating and ultimately life-changing experience!

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by confuseed

confuseed — Wed, 06 Apr 2011 00:59:13 +0000

also my boyfriend lied to me and broke up with me and he told me he didnt want to hurt me and i found out from the girl. he is a huge liar. and has been charged with domestic battery from hitting me and his family hates me cuz im mean to him but i have a reason after all that he did

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by hurting in life

hurting in life — Tue, 05 Apr 2011 03:47:36 +0000

my fiancée cheated on me after 2 years of being together we have a daughter together and i found out that she cheated on me with my brother, she wasn’t going to tell me my brother told me like 2 weeks after and said oh don’t be mad we still love you. so what do i do now?

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Matt

Matt — Sun, 03 Apr 2011 19:00:16 +0000

I’ve been having trouble dealing with my girlfriend’s past. She hasn’t been in a relationship since she broke up with her ex from high school several years ago but she’s continued to basically let him have sex with her because she was still in love with him but she is certain now that what has happened to her qualifies as sexual abuse. I knew her for more than a year before we started dating and when we did finally start dating we never really had a conversation about rules. However, we know each other very well and certain basic things were assumed. A day after the first time we kissed she went home for the weekend and went over to this ex-boyfriend’s house because she thought nothing would happen and she’d be able to resist finally after all of these years. They got high and somehow they ended up having sex for only a few seconds before she pushed him off and left to go home. She never told me about it. I had to ask, yell, plead even for her to be honest with me and I onl started to suspect because I was feeling low down and remembered that weekend off-handedly. She said she was planning on telling me and I know we weren’t really together then and it sounds petty to say but a few seconds may be a little harsh to feel so angry and betrayed but I can’t help how I feel and I won’t apologize for it. She and I have talked extensively and are on a break starting today. I used to tell her I love her every day and when we talked I told her I still do. Knowing about her past is bad enough to handle but I don’t know if I can ever forgive and forget because she was flat out stupid and careless with my feelings when we were friends and even when things finally work out with the girl of my dreams she lets this happen. This is such a grey area. I don’t know how to approach this because of her history of abuse and I feel like maybe she doesn’t understand what sex means to me and then we’re not on the same page which is a problem. I do know that this would never happen again because this guy has tried to make moves on her again, even in my presence and she’s said no and she and I have talked very seriously about marriage. I need to figure out how I really feel. What in the world is going on?

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by diju

diju — Thu, 31 Mar 2011 19:46:36 +0000

My girlfriend cheat me but still I love her. I know that I can’t get her anymore but still I weighting for her

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Efren

Efren — Wed, 30 Mar 2011 06:39:19 +0000

How hows it going. Im 17 and I just found out that my girlfriend cheated on me with another man. I am 100% positive that this happened because I found a message on facebook between her and the guy. The messgae shows that she asked him out, she made out with him, and gave him a bj while we were together. The date on the message is 3/12/11, today is 3/29/11. She told me that she has been hurt before, that all her ex’s cheated on her with their ex and she said she didnt want to get hurt again. Since we have been together I have done nothing to get her mad, nothing to make her sad, and nothing at all, i always told her i loved her and she said that she would never hurt me and that she loved me. But she has hurt me very bad and I dont know what to do about it. If you can help me it would be very helpful. Thank you.

Comment on Are You a Jealous Lover? by mygosh

mygosh — Thu, 17 Mar 2011 12:11:55 +0000

are u kidding me…great insight. good night….

Comment on Age Gap Relationships by James

James — Fri, 11 Mar 2011 21:05:35 +0000

I am a 35 year old male who is married to a 49 year old woman. We were attracted to one another based on our goals and dreams we have in life…and the physical. I experience the same you mentioned in your article where she wants to command all the free time. I am more of a loner and she is a social butterfly. I can adapt to public situations and be sociable, but after working two jobs and running a part-time business I’m tired and just want to sit on the couch and play video games or watch ESPN. She feels such activities are a waste of a grown man’s time and would prefer I work more.

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by Bubba

Bubba — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 06:34:57 +0000

One thing you can do as far as the activation thing that I’ve figured out… go in and fill in your card info and stuff but don’t actually confirm the order. Zoosk will then send you an email waiving the activation fee for a limited time if you were a subscriber before. Kind of shady, but it works! Then I just unsubscribe right after that and the month subscription keeps working until the end of your time, at least in the past it has.

Comment on Interracial Romance by Inter Racial Dating

Inter Racial Dating — Wed, 02 Feb 2011 23:15:24 +0000

I am white and i am dating Black and i find nothing wrong about. Really.. For me, race does not matter. what matters most is the mutual understanding that you both feel for each other..

Comment on Interracial Romance by InterRacialDatingHq

InterRacialDatingHq — Thu, 27 Jan 2011 23:15:10 +0000

The old order is crumbling fast; new systems of life and activities are emerging, and it is no longer a crime to date across dating lines — thank God. In fact, the fear may be that the world will become more and more unified. Those who have problem with inter racial dating need to learn that nothing ever stay constant

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by bonii

bonii — Sat, 22 Jan 2011 04:06:21 +0000

hi i’m louis and i’ve been hurt by my girlfriend
i got played by her when i was with her she was texting some other guy sending pictures of herself and that guy did the same thing .
i never did nothing to hurt her and she did that.
she went to sleep at her friends house and she told me before she went that she was going shopping with her but soon that night she kissed her friends brother and she even let him hold her .i dont really know what went on after that but thats what she told me in the morning when she came back .she just told me right out of no where.the same thing i didnt do nothing to hurt her .

so please someone tell me what i should do
because i dont know what to do i cant even trust her anymore and it doesnt feel the same way anymore.

so please dont be shy and help me
i need help from anyone.
thanks

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by SHAE

SHAE — Fri, 21 Jan 2011 05:37:20 +0000

SO MY BF CURRENTLY CHEATING ON ME AND WE HAVE A SON TOGETHER AND ONE ON THE WAY AND HURTS SO BAD CUZ I LOVE HIM SO MUCH AND I DONT HAVE THE BACK BONE TO CALL IT OFF THATS HOW MUCH I LOVE THIS DUDE I FEEL LIKE HE IS MY LIFE IM 23 YRS OLD AND IM STUCK IN THIS FUCKED UP SITUATIONI HATE HIM FOR THIS AND HOW I FOUND OUT WAS THE GIRL HE CHAETED WITH TOLD ME AND HE SAYS ITS NOT TRUE BUT DEEP DOWN INSIDE I KNOW ITS TRUE SHE EVEN TOLD ME THEY HAD SEX IN HIS CAR IM SO HURT BY THIS SHIT CANT TRUST NOTHING THAT HE SAY I KEEP TELLING HIM I JUST WANNA BE HAPPY I DONT EVER ASK FOR ANYTHING ELSE I SWEAR JUST TO BE HAPPY AND BY BEING HAPPY THAT MEANS JUST ONE PERSON BEING WITH ME AND HIM I FEEL LIKE I CAN GO OFF THE DEEP END AT ANY MOMENT THIS HURTS SO BAD SO TO ALL YOU GUYS IF THERE IS SOME ONE SPECIAL IN UR LIFE DONT DO HER WRONG BECAUSE IT HURTS REALLY REALLY BAD

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by charl

charl — Fri, 21 Jan 2011 00:35:02 +0000

hi, my girl cheated on me after 8 months on new years when i was on vacation, she hooked up with a guy at a party while she was drunk, but to me thats no good explanation and she called me and told me about it, when i heard that it felt like my heart got torn into pieces! She kept on saying shes sorry and regrets what she has done and cries about it. Were stil together and i try not to think about it but it’s impossible! I don’t trust her anymore and i have lost alot of respect for her. The best thing is she still has contact with the guy, I don’t know if i should continue with this relationship but i love her too much, i keep thinking she wil do it again an maybe go futher next time. . .what should i do?

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Hugo

Hugo — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 21:21:23 +0000

I’m only 15, but I was in a relationship with this girl. It wasn’t official, but we acted as if we were together. and i went on holiday for a week and when i came back i found out she’d had sex with another guy. i was absolutely gutted and i dont know what to do.

Comment on Ashley Madison Review (AshleyMadison.com) by George

George — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 06:34:16 +0000

Guys, you just have to be patient, funny, cocky, and interesting. AM has tons of guys competing for the ladies’ attention. Differentiate yourselves and don’t let yourself get swept up in the roller coaster of emotions. It’s a numbers game at first. It really forces you to look at yourself and examine what makes you attractive and to perhaps do something about it.

All this bunk about it being fake is crap, loser moaning. I’ve met four wonderful women over two years and have enjoyed the most amazing intimate connections ever. Women on AM have a sex drive that’s worth mining for. That’s why they’re there.

Don’t waste your money on the online chat part. Just email, post a generic picture along with a clearer confidential picture. Strive for a private email address and then you’re in. The rest is up to you. Positive, confident, successful, optimistic, fun, sexy. This is what they’re looking for and you’ve got to deliver. Good luck!

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by slient

slient — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 03:45:38 +0000

hi im 25 and i’m in a relationship with a girl that i love so much and a future wife to be but a month ago she went to a party and had couple of drinks and someone put something in her drink then next morning she was in someone else’s bed she told me she felt she was raped by her ex and then she told me that she was pregrant with the ex she wants to be with me still and is afraid if she keeps the child then i would leave but i told her i forgive her but i got to a point that i told her no parties no guys no drinking due to the incident and i was going thou a tough time with my aunt having cancer and im thinking of breaking up with her because it happen to me the second time same seneraio 5 yrs ago with my ex and my grandma was sick and she passed away and i went away to see her and she slept with 5 guys but i dnt know what to do should i leave or give it a another chance?

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Evan

Evan — Wed, 19 Jan 2011 01:57:24 +0000

Me an my girlfriend have a long history. We met freshman year in high school and became bet friends and told each other everything. We were the same person basically. I liked her, but I had a girlfriend who I had been with for over a year and she had a boyfriend. I broke up with my girlfriend before school ended and eventually her and her boyfriend broke up. And right away we started spending time with each other, and doing stuff with each other. We didn’t become official until several months later, and we were the happiest people ever, even her mother said she thought she was in love. After 5 months of being together she went on a cruise. She cheated on me with some guy she just met two days in a row and it was over new years. The first time I saw her afte she got home was the first day back at school from vacation, and she was crying. I went over her house later that day an I could tell she did something, so when the truth came I was heart broken and so was she. She told me the reason sh was heart broken was because sh couldn’t believe she but me like this. We spent a long time talking about it and it has been two weeks since and were still together. I’m in love with her and she means everything to me, but I don’t know if I should still be with her.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Keanu

Keanu — Sun, 09 Jan 2011 23:11:13 +0000

My girl friend cheated on me with 3 other guys! I feel hurt and I dont know what to do? Last year she was so nice when i meet her but now i feel like i know nothing. She still likes me and i like her but i feel like she is a slut and I cant trust her anymore. What do I do? She promised that their would be no lies and no cheating and she just broke that promise. I feel like I should kill myself or i should have never been born. If god realy loved us all then why did he do this to us.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Rajkumar

Rajkumar — Sun, 09 Jan 2011 08:36:28 +0000

for more than two years my girl friend giving plenty of money to one guy, i think he blackmails her. suddenly one day i saw her bank statement that she gave 1 lacks Indian rupees by getting loan from bank. I have just heard my girl was dating another guy from my workplace before i loved her but the guy has transferred and I don’t know what to do. now she denies me and she loves another guy in my office. i was planned to commit suicide and i have bought poison also. but before i die i need to know why she giving lot of money to that previous lover, what evidence he have. she break up with me for asking this to her.
on feb11 her birthday that day im going to die surely. help me what to do, i cant live without her. in front of me she lives with another guy.

Comment on Ashley Madison Review (AshleyMadison.com) by Kim

Kim — Sat, 08 Jan 2011 11:11:23 +0000

Like Alice, I have found AM quite good for contacting men (I am real, and young, and attractive, and I’m not a hooker) EXCEPT that AM randomly suspends my account – i can be in mid-conversation with someone, fixing up a date, and suddenly my account is suspended. I’ve no idea why, and when I email AM they won’t tell me why, so I suspect its some pimply-faced support guy at AM who just suspends peoples accounts for fun. So when I meet a guy I like, I give him my FB address asap before we get suspended. If it weren’t for that, I’d recommend AM. But because of that, and its a BIG problem with AM, I’m now trying other dating sites.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by danie

danie — Wed, 05 Jan 2011 04:29:31 +0000

okay my boyfriend of over a year and 3months just told me that a while ago when we were fighting he talked”dirty” with this girl and got a pic from her. he keeps beating himself up about it and i hate it, but i just feel that i wasnt enough for him and thats why he turned to her, he says he loves me and it was just a huge mistake. i lovehim somuch and i dont want to let him go but i dont know what to do!! can any one help me!?

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by D. MacK

D. MacK — Tue, 04 Jan 2011 23:13:59 +0000

My girlfriend was with her friend and a guy called her and asked if he cood come over so he cood be with her friend.. she agreed. after awhile she said she was goin to bed and he follwed her… he thn took his pants off and told her to give him oral. she refused then he got a little agressive and was pushing her head down slightly… she said he wood not stop so she did it eventually for about 5 mins. she said she scraped him a few times and didnt go deep… she told me later and said she was deeply sorry and she regreted every minute of it…. we have been goin out for a really long time and i love her to death but idk wht to do?

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Evelyn

Evelyn — Tue, 04 Jan 2011 21:40:42 +0000

i just found out that my boyfriend has slept with is ex who he has a child with. i recently told her that he doesn’t love her anymore and he loves me, our relationship is long distance. thing is i don’t feel angry at him at all but i can’t get the fact he did it of my mind. what do i do?!?!?!?!

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Jason

Jason — Tue, 04 Jan 2011 06:52:09 +0000

I just found out that my girlfriend cheated on me 4 months ago by having a threesome with her friend and her boyfriend. And we had only been dating for a month. She went on to tell me that no guy has ever treated her the way I do and how much in love she is with me. She further explained that alcohol was involved and that it’s been eating her up every single day ever since. I sincerely believe that she would never cheat on me again, but I don’t know what to do? I am / was in love with this girl and she knows the repercussions this potentially could have on our relationship by telling me, but she still did. Better late than never, or say good bye for ever?

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by Sam

Sam — Mon, 03 Jan 2011 07:47:39 +0000

I was attempting to buy just one month for $29.95, but right before you confirm the purchase, it said there is a $24.99 activation fee, which would then double the price. I also saw everywhere it being advertised that you can see messages for free..which u cannot.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Ellena

Ellena — Fri, 31 Dec 2010 17:53:12 +0000

I’ve been with my boyfriend just over a year and he just admitted to me that in the first two months he kissed seven girls and just basically acted like he was single. I feel like I don’t want to give up on what we have because he said he changed from then. But how do I know there’s not more and that he wont do it again?

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by Allan

Allan — Wed, 01 Dec 2010 07:56:32 +0000

When you send a wink you might get what is supposedly a reply which you have to subscribe to read. To subscribe for a month is $29, but when you click to pay, you find there’s another fee of $24 added to that….not fair.
After you pay your money, the reply turns out to be just a request for an email rather than a wink, so you write an email but probably won’t hear anything anyway….
I regret joining.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by shaan

shaan — Thu, 18 Nov 2010 17:47:51 +0000

my gf cheated me n started loving my best frnd i feeeelllllll so bad what to do

Comment on JDate.com Review (Jdate) by Anon

Anon — Wed, 17 Nov 2010 22:55:52 +0000

JDate is basically thievery in disguise. I have found their customer service to be unhelpful and appalling to say the least. I made a subscription with them on a deal they had and as a precaution I called in and told them to take me off auto renewal. When the time came I discovered that they did not take me off auto-renewal and claimed that they have no record of me calling in. Absolute bullshit. Not just that they blatantly refused to give me my money back or to even rectify the situation in anyway. They dismissed me by saying that no one will help my, not allowing me to speak to anyone above the customer service representative. Even though I completely canceled my account, my money has not been returned to me. They have pretty much taken my money without giving me a service in return!

Be warned. Be careful with the auto renewal. Get names and confirmation numbers, because with Jdate the customer is NOT always right.

Comment on How to Handle a Break Up by Sarah L

Sarah L — Tue, 16 Nov 2010 13:33:28 +0000

Why are people posting their relationship needs on social network sites? I thought dating sites were made for that.

Comment on How to Handle a Break Up by Sarah.L

Sarah.L — Tue, 16 Nov 2010 13:29:02 +0000

It’s sometimes about being in the right place at the right time. Also, if you want a decent partner, then visit decent places. You may not find a new partner quickly, but at least you’re trying.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Zac of Clyde

Zac of Clyde — Tue, 16 Nov 2010 02:38:21 +0000

my girl friend cheated on me with a much older guy she let him go all the way.but me and her are back to talking i hope she does not go back to him. and thats all i can do is hope

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Nyambe

Nyambe — Fri, 12 Nov 2010 10:50:58 +0000

My wife to be cheated on me with the guy I know, my lady had sex with the same guy over 6 times. I need your advice

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by Karen

Karen — Thu, 04 Nov 2010 01:59:42 +0000

I read the FAQ’s and it said a non paying member could receive and reply to messages sent by a paying member. This is not true. IF I receive notification that I have received a message – then a paying member had to have sent it… BUT it then says I have to subscribe to read it!

Zoosk is a rip off. I will stick with Match… at least it has a reputation and you can actually see the pics. Zoosk quality is total crap!

Comment on Lavalife.com Review (Lavalife) by Dating Netherlands

Dating Netherlands — Wed, 03 Nov 2010 10:57:51 +0000

Hello, I like your website a lot. I have made a similar dating site comparison – in Dutch Keep up the good work

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Malachi

Malachi — Mon, 01 Nov 2010 20:38:35 +0000

Well theres this girl that i really love and i broke up with her because she called me a horrible boyfriend and she hated me. So she thinks that our realationship that we had was a joke how do i prove to her that it wasnt…

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by motherofjessy

motherofjessy — Mon, 01 Nov 2010 17:10:50 +0000

I am a former Zoosker that received a full refund of all membership monies paid when company changes to the site left me unsatisfied after being a member for over 2 months. My refund was against company policy but when I presented my complaint, I received complete satisfaction and a full refund.

Comment on DateHookup.com Review (datehookup) by Jason

Jason — Thu, 28 Oct 2010 07:37:53 +0000

Yea well beatrix_kiddo tried to scam me out of my money and identity. First she wanted me to pay for a “ticket” so we coudl meet and get married. Then, when I didn’t feel comfortable, she made up tons of stuff that wasn’t true. So, I tried to explain that I wasn’t who she thought I was. She calmed down and went back to “hinting” she needed money for us to fall in love and be married before this thanksgiving.

It was crazy, and she even wanted my address after knowing her for two days! Then, when I didn’t send her money (I quit talking to her) she tried to get people from my state to hunt me down.

These facts can be found in her posts. What a crazy place. I never would have thought an American woman would do it (I guess I would have known had it been the russian bride scam).

She has a felony in NC and I checked it out. She is a child abductor, so adios to “Sharon Elizabeth Whitfield”.

Crazy, borderline, woman!

Comment on True.com Class Action Lawsuit Settled by Fred

Fred — Wed, 27 Oct 2010 22:49:48 +0000

Its great that sites like this have finally got what they deserve!

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by Anna

Anna — Tue, 19 Oct 2010 14:06:39 +0000

I believe the site is a scam as well. I am SO GLAD I didn’t pay. I am going to delete my profile. I believe they are sending me bogus profiles in response to my profile in order to get me to join. Then once it’s done, the “person” disappears. Heck no! I believe it’s a scam! All the comments have helped me to make a decision TO NOT JOIN THIS SITE!

Comment on Age Gap Relationships by kimberley

kimberley — Tue, 19 Oct 2010 05:12:45 +0000

I was only 16 years old when I fell in love with a 37-year old man and we went out for 1 year and 8 months but I had to end it because of his behaviour, he was controlling me and my family, he always wanted to know what I was doing and where I was all the time, mean to my mum, losing his tempter over little things and much more… now I know not to go out with someone where there’s a big age gap. I’m almost 18 and the relationship has been over for 2 months and I’m a lot happier now. I hope to find someone who isn’t like that, who is caring, lovable, sweet and so on.

Comment on Ashley Madison Review (AshleyMadison.com) by Alice

Alice — Tue, 05 Oct 2010 05:19:57 +0000

I am a 24 year old attract woman who is unhappy in my marriage and I have an account on Ashly Madison. And I have had better success than I had at bars.
am not old, fat, or unsightly at all. I am not an escort and have never asked or money or even taken gifts other then the man buying dinner.
I am a real person and I have greatly enjoyed the fun and companionship that I have found through Ashley Madison.
Those who talk bad just don’t have the patience needed to be on that kind of site. The women are generally from higher income brackets and have more to lose than the women who are willing to go to bars to pick up men are not worried about their husbands finding out, while women like me want more excitement, but have too much to lose to be that obvious.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by rocky in mess

rocky in mess — Sun, 03 Oct 2010 21:19:29 +0000

i am in long distance relationship with my fiancee my age is 25 and her 18.but last week she messed round with a guy who lives near by they were carrying an frndship from last 6 month and they used to talk lot. she confessed me at same day when she messed with that guy.but now i am carrying a broken heart i still love her n cares for her
and she is feeling sorry n feeling guilty and telling me that she will never do it again but today itz very hard to belive her i am in deepresssion now i am confused that she love me or not and plz tell me how i can find her that she will be faithfull to me…wht to do…we had planned to marry after 2 years…plz help me

Comment on Ashley Madison Review (AshleyMadison.com) by karl michael anton

karl michael anton — Thu, 30 Sep 2010 01:10:40 +0000

SAVE YOUR MONEY!!! A total scam! A fraud!
Many of the women listed just do not exist, or are no longer “connected.”

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Rhionna

Rhionna — Wed, 29 Sep 2010 02:47:42 +0000

My boyfriend keeps cheating on me and I dont know what to do cuz I love him so much tht I cant leave him:( Plzz message me:(

-Rhionna

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Sleepless nights

Sleepless nights — Tue, 28 Sep 2010 17:57:25 +0000

Hello. I have been in a relationship for close to 2 years. I meet her at a boarding school for teenagers with mental illnesses. Both myself and my former girlfriend are both diagnosed with manic depression and anxiety. In a way it helped our relationship because we could relate to what each other are feeling. She has been mentally unwell and in and out of hospital since I meet her. I have had to stop her from self harming and I’ve been in an ambulance with her when she overdosed.but I love her dearly. We both lost our virginity to each other and she is the only girl I’ve ever loved. It has been hard because it’s a long distance relationship and she lives about 3 hours from me. When we went to boarding school together she mucked around with the other girls but I was able to forgive that. Recently I didn’t hear from her for 2 weeks until she finally told me that she had sex with another guy. She said she was mentally unwell and regretted it.

I love her so so much. When she’s not depressed she has the most bubbly personality. But when She told me she had sex with Someone else. After all Id done for her. Always being there for her whenever I could. Being next to her in hospital all those times. Most of the relationship last year I stayed with her in fear that she would end her life
if I left her. But this year she has been mentally better and has stopped self harming. And the relationships been better. It’s still been hard because of the long distance. But it was worth it. Until I found out she cheated. I was shocked. I decided to leave her. It’s been a week since and I havnt slept at all. I don’t know if I made the right decision. Was it her fault? Did she cheat on me or did her illness? I don’t know who to blame. I’m just scared I could never be intimate with her again knowing she had sex with another guy she barely knew.

Your response could change my life. I don’t know weather to take her back or not. I just need help. I do really love her…I just don’t know what to do.

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by Kamili

Kamili — Thu, 23 Sep 2010 08:32:08 +0000

You can deactivate your account yes but it still does not stop them keeping your details and using your pictures. Make sure to delete everything from your account before you leave! They have been using my details after I deactivated my account and a year later I am still receiving flirts and emails from them. How can this be so if the account is cancelled? They have stolen my identity and used it to make money. This is a scam!

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by mervin

mervin — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 00:27:49 +0000

You can actually cancel your zoosk account though (guy below said you can’t) just go to settings then deactivate, hale the people on zoosk haven’t paid and can’t reply I canceled mine yesterday. Oh well, thanks for nothing Facebook! Don’t download the chat thing it slowed down my PC!

Comment on SitterCity.com Review (Sittercity) by Sitter City

Sitter City — Wed, 15 Sep 2010 04:31:05 +0000

The promo code SCSAVE 10 has expired.

Here’s up updated promo code to save you 15%: TAKE15

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Anthony

Anthony — Tue, 14 Sep 2010 02:37:57 +0000

My girlfriend of four months cheated on me two weeks ago, she has not admitted to doing it, but I know for sure she did. I found pictures online, taken by her best friend, of her kissing this guy she had told me that she no longer talks to. I am heartbroken and I am not sure what to do right now, I am deeply in love with her and she says the same back to me. I know I need to sit and talk with her about this, but I don’t know how to address her infidelity. I had asked her if she has been entirely faithful during the whole time we’ve been together, she said yes. But the pictures I have seen shows otherwise. I love her so much and it kills me that she would do such a thing because she tells me I am the perfect guy and the best boyfriend I have ever had, I have no idea how or why this happened. So far, I have not confronted her about it because I can never find a time to have a serious conversation with her, I feel like she has been trying to avoid a serious conversation with me because we’ll agree to talk but later on she’ll cancel on me. I know that by addressing this, that things will change and they will never be the same. I need to know what to do and what to say to her. Please help!

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by lb

lb — Sun, 12 Sep 2010 21:19:51 +0000

Zoosk claims new scientific matching similar to EH. Which to me = just as crappy. Also, shortly after I start conversations all of a sudden the other person is no longer a subscriber. What the what? Yeh, BIG money waster. Bye-bye Zoosk!

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by Cheersbob

Cheersbob — Sat, 11 Sep 2010 23:45:18 +0000

Is Zoosk a scam? Are the advertisements or replies fake?

The jury is still out for me whether zoosk replies are for real or some of the profiles that i get responses from a real. I’ve bee a unpaid trial member and I am suspicious about scam dating sites that bait you with good looking girls and messages to just get you to subscribe. The practice would seem logically common sense to do.. after all if the member cant make up their mind lets do some underhanded practice such as bait them to join. At the rate these sites charge .. after 500 of these you will see the numbers stack up. Redhot pie an australian site http://www.redhotpie.com got caught out baiting members http://www.computerworld.com.au/article/325344/accc_takes_redhotpie_owners_court/ .. Heres where i think zoosk do the same thing.

1. I’m an unpaid member
2. I get replies – Flirts and messages from so called other members
3. surprisingly these are unlocked where others i see genuinely are locked (eg. their profile)
4. many times within 24-48 hours after not responding these “replies” become non members or disappear. I found the profiles moved to my trash box with “no longer a zoosk member”. Why?? so many times?? A new member ive never seen before comes on and 2 days later GONE?? C’mon guys .. these women cant be that quick .. time and time again.
5. The responses I received from so called “local” ladies staying in the same city .. the picture presented and the standard of English didnt match up. Lots of Gramma need changing, and never addressed my questions. Yes, one was linked to a Nigerian 419K dating email list I found.
6. The weirdest thing is ALL of the replies i have my doubts about NEVER appear on the list of people who have viewed my profile? yet other replies do. Is that strange

Anyone with other experiences of zoosk?

Theres some better free dating sites out there…

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by Christopher

Christopher — Mon, 30 Aug 2010 17:23:13 +0000

A total waste of money. The site doesn’t work i.e. it looks and feels totally amateur and it’s (most importantly) totally ineffectual. Don’t waste your money.

Shame on Facebook for being associated with Zoosk.

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by Bill Compton

Bill Compton — Fri, 27 Aug 2010 17:33:41 +0000

I agree…a total rip-off. I was “recruited” from Facebook for $11.99 a month. I tried to cancel before the first month was out. This was not easy to do. When I saw the $100+ charge on my credit card statement, I redoubled my efforts to contact them and to cancel.

After a week a got a robot-generated e-mail, telling me that “a real person” would contact me in 1-2 business days. Another lie!

My credit card company told me there was nothing they could do, because Zoosk clearly stated that “moneys paid to them were non-refundable.” What a scam!

I intend to fight however I can.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by bogdan popa

bogdan popa — Mon, 23 Aug 2010 21:57:42 +0000

PS
She call me 1000 of time and i answer finally and she was crying very hard for like 2 hours and tell me she didn’t do anything with him. We were very drunk and she was very very drunk too, but i still dont understand what they can do in the bathroom with the door look. i love her so much and i really cant live without her but that feeling bothers me alot,please help me with some advices. thanks a lot

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by bogdan popa

bogdan popa — Mon, 23 Aug 2010 21:52:24 +0000

I have no sleep for 2 days,no food for 2 days, I found her in my boss bathroom with him while I run to my house to grab some beer but i’m not 100% they where doing something there but the door it was look so i guess thats pretty bad, just hope to be strong enough to pass this hard time in my life. Ya know some ppl say be strong love its blind and hurts a lot ,I wish to be just like that but right now its just killing me and how can be strong when you dont have her the person who woke up next to ya every morning and told you how much she love you and she always be there for you, for the good and bad times. remember when i was laying in the bed with you and i told ya how scared i’m to dont lose you because the world will just drop on me and i cant live without you and you swear to me that would never happened because you love me so much and you want just to trust you and believe in you and that what i do,and i starting give to you everything i give to you all my love more that anybody can give,i just stop thinking about me your the only one who matter i dont even look at a girl just to make you happy and can see that smile who make me happy every second, ,i just cant believe you did all this stuff to me even if you know how much you mean for me. Just think how many ppl was so happy for us and how many ppl you make cryin for your cuple minutes of stupidity,but it maybe worth for you…now all what i have left its your smell and the thoughts who still killing me. Even if a lots of ppl tell me your not good enough for me or your not serious enough i never listen because i love you and i believe in you as i promise you.
I know its sound like a sad sorry,but in this time i was the most happiest person in the world,even if right now im fucked up i just think i might just cant be happy maybe thats what god want…i’m sorry for you guys and girl who go trough this stuff and i’m sorry for you guys who have to read this message. I what to say how sorry i’m because i stop talking and hang with my friends who really care about me thanks alot guys real friends will be forever with you… this is my story my friends and i really apreciate some advice if you guys can give me some…thanks a lot everybody

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 20:01:25 +0000

rami, it looks like she made the decision for you – she moved on. You should do the same – move on and start concentrating on other aspects of your life. Having a significant other is only a small part of your life and you need to start exploring the other parts of your life that need more attention. The important thing is to not mope around and look depressed when you are around others. If you have an upbeat aura to you then other people will see that and want to be around you.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 19:57:56 +0000

Larry, wow with friends like that who needs enemies. This economy has a lot of people out of work and that shouldn’t be a reason for someone to cheat. If you want her back and she is willing then you should take it slow. Don’t let her jump right back in because she may feel that she could cheat again with no repercussions. Take it slow and make her earn your trust again.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 19:55:00 +0000

confuse, you might want to step back and take some time off from this relationship. It looks like, from what you wrote, that she has been misleading you about her SMS and calling this other person. It would be good for you to focus on something else besides her and if she realy wants you she will come back.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 19:52:24 +0000

Frenando, Love is a two way street. It is real hard to earn that trust back and it takes a long time. If you want to giver her a second chance, try not to be overbearing, but let her know that she will need to ‘earn’ your trust back. Hopefully everything works out.

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by that one guy

that one guy — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 21:03:37 +0000

you know you can send messages to people for free and as long as you spell out the @ and the . in your email then they wont delete it. loopholes my friend.

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by sean

sean — Fri, 06 Aug 2010 22:32:40 +0000

very helpful comments about scam aspect of this. I WAS a member of Zoosk and couldn’t figure out why nothing positive was happening. Try match.com or plenty of fish. sean

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by larry fritz

larry fritz — Wed, 04 Aug 2010 23:29:55 +0000

Yet another rip off site…They send women from hundreds of mile away.. They gather photos and profiles of people who do not have memberships and just keep taking your money..They do not answer emails and you can not get in contact with any one in billing

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Fernando

Fernando — Sun, 01 Aug 2010 09:44:05 +0000

My girlfriend cheated on me. She says it was an accident and a stupid thing that should have never happen. she is my whole world and i broke down when she told me. Something like this hurts and will hurt for a long time. I really took a second and remembered all of the good times we have had and i know a lifetime of that could easily make up for what she did. i love her to death i just need help dealing with the fact. I am just in a whirl of emotion but i know leaving her would be a mistake.

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by Gandalf the Wite

Gandalf the Wite — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 00:56:32 +0000

As already pointed out so well, not only is it pretty much a rip-off money-wise, but Zoosk violates personal privacy – at least as far as the facebook app is concerned.

I have not read through the fine print in the initial agreement when you sign up, but the privacy violation includes the following:

1) Impersonating you

2) Sending unsolicited emails on your behalf

3) Still using your profile when you have already removed their app

4) Targeting your facebook friends with emails saying you “suggest” they should use Zoosk because you are “so happy” with it. Most of my friends that received such emails unbeknownst to me were married and seriously wondered why I would think they would like the dating service!

5) The fact that they are sending emails to my facebook friends indicates that they steal the contact information to reach your friends and keep it even if you remove their app. I uninstalled the app about half a year ago. About a week ago, all of a sudden I am contacted by about a dozen of my friends wondering why I would think they would love Zoosk!

6) It is probably through shady practices like this that they are doing so “well” financially:
http://techcrunch.com/2009/10/20/zoosk-hits-40-million-members-eyes-20-million-in-revenue-this-year/
I highly doubt that 40,000,000 people signed up. I know some friends that believe an IQ test they took on facebook installed the Zoosk app. Once that happens, you don’t even have to be aware of the fact that they have full access to your information and can spam your friends as they please.

7) If you have installed Zoosk on Facebook, when you finally figure out what is going on, it is almost impossible to get rid of it. One friend of mine in trying to not allow Zoosk access found out that it had then installed itself. The only solution that I think works is to block it altogether. Go to the Zoosk page (just do a search in facebook) and on the left hand side is a link to block it.

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by James

James — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 05:27:29 +0000

Wow, imagine someone in bussiness to make money, who would have thought of that? If you want something for free, go to craigslist people. I checked it out and read all the information they provided. A rip off is when you are sold one thing and delivered something else. Of course there is marketing hype, but all those of you who think it’s a “rip off” really just don’t like the terms of their service. Fine, find something that better suits you for the price you want.

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by Rich

Rich — Fri, 02 Jul 2010 20:04:53 +0000

Yep, rip off! I found the add on Words With Friends. I thought it was free but then it asks me to pay when someone sent me a message. sneaky bastards. F Zoosk ! if you single hit me up..

Comment on eHarmony.com Review (eharmony) by Leif Eriksen

Leif Eriksen — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 16:46:11 +0000

The site is way overrated and does not deliver what it promises. many matches do not appear to be compatible or simular interests. After being on the site for months, very few matches even respond after writing to them. One date and a couple of phone calls does not do it for me when I am paying for this every month. Ether
the online dating model has women not giving you the time of day or these matches are not even real or currently active. Actually meeting people out in real life would be a better gauge to compatibility as one would get a feel for hitting off and interacting with each other.

Comment on Ashley Madison Review (AshleyMadison.com) by Secret

Secret — Sun, 27 Jun 2010 08:27:03 +0000

This is just disgusting. These ain’t no men, those who are married or with someone and are on this site are called boys that will be nothing but alone.

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by Steve D

Steve D — Tue, 22 Jun 2010 19:04:55 +0000

Zoosk is a ripoff. Going month to month, Zoosk is TRIPLE what Singlesnet is, and singlesnet let you have all the features for a few weeks, and you can cancel any time. The TV ads are very very very misleading.

Sure it is free. You just cannot do anything on it without paying exhorbitant money.

They will not allow you to put any identifiers on, teasing you, so you cannot read your emails. I am getting out, if they let me. I read on another website you have to pay them to cancel your membership.

You want a site just as good and 100% FREE? Better matches even? Go to OKCupid.com . Millions there, too.

Bottom line, do not believe everything you hear. On facebook there are pages and pages on Zoosk page congratulating all these couples who are engaged. I do not believe it.