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Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by Steve D

Steve D — Tue, 22 Jun 2010 19:04:55 +0000

Zoosk is a ripoff. Going month to month, Zoosk is TRIPLE what Singlesnet is, and singlesnet let you have all the features for a few weeks, and you can cancel any time. The TV ads are very very very misleading.

Sure it is free. You just cannot do anything on it without paying exhorbitant money.

They will not allow you to put any identifiers on, teasing you, so you cannot read your emails. I am getting out, if they let me. I read on another website you have to pay them to cancel your membership.

You want a site just as good and 100% FREE? Better matches even? Go to OKCupid.com . Millions there, too.

Bottom line, do not believe everything you hear. On facebook there are pages and pages on Zoosk page congratulating all these couples who are engaged. I do not believe it.

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by ryan

ryan — Mon, 21 Jun 2010 00:01:12 +0000

It amazing this site is in business and that facebook is a partner with them. This company is purely in it for the money and offers it members nothing to take advantage off. Please, everyone boycott it and maybe there will be change when there are no users left on the dam thing. No support for basic users as if there not good enough, those basic user if treated right might actually paid for membership. And then there bs scanning program (my guess gender basis) does not allow you to post fb, but yet it allows others. What a load of horseshit, is that another acceptable term of paying money to be on the site.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Tue, 15 Jun 2010 18:22:53 +0000

Since she slept with someone else before you guys made it ‘official’ then I wouldn’t worry about it. As long as your relationship now, being ‘official’, is solid and both of you are happy together than I would put the past in the past. Plus, always remember who she chose in the end – you – and not the other guy.

Comment on JDate.com Review (Jdate) by Love Guru

Love Guru — Tue, 15 Jun 2010 18:15:47 +0000

It’s a review that we did of the JDate.com service. It reviews the offerings that JDate presents to the users.

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by C Johnston

C Johnston — Wed, 02 Jun 2010 22:03:50 +0000

I think this company is very greedy, After all they don’t do anything that facebook do for free, but charge you $24 a month! On top of that they censor your emails to make sure your not giving out your facebook address. It used to be good value a few years ago but greed has taken over!

Comment on Match.com Partners with Yahoo! Personals by Brian

Brian — Wed, 26 May 2010 20:02:04 +0000

Yahoo Personals users can transition their profile and premium membership over, or cancel and get a prorated refund, or continue using the service through July 21st when Yahoo! Personals will officially shut down its back end.

Users will still be able to move their profiles over to Match through Jan 19th, 2011. I moved a free profile over and got a 4 free day all access membership from Match.com which I thought was a nice gesture from them.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Perplexed

Perplexed — Thu, 20 May 2010 03:51:48 +0000

I have been with my girlfriend for a bit over a year now and am living with her. I have recently found out that she slept with someone else, and was interested in, after we had started sleeping with each other but before we ‘made it official’. When asked if she had slept with anyone after we had met she said no. We seem happy now and I am sure as i can be that she hasnt cheated on me since we have been a couple. I am not sure if I should worry about it at all, just thought i could get a second opinion. My main concern is that she seemed more intrested in persueing a relationship with the other guy than me. Am i just being jelous when i shoudnt be?

Comment on DateHookup.com Review (datehookup) by Valerie and Ken

Valerie and Ken — Wed, 19 May 2010 14:51:05 +0000

Ken and i met on Date hook up and so far it’s been the best experience of our lives ! He was recently divorced and i just got out of surgery..major surgery. Date hook up has brought us together…Thank you !!

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Mon, 17 May 2010 18:25:55 +0000

You are still very young and have a lot of life to live. I would concentrate on my school work and let love come to me instead of chasing it. You will find someone who shares your views about commitment.

Comment on DateHookup.com Review (datehookup) by Antoinette

Antoinette — Mon, 17 May 2010 00:35:14 +0000

After 4 days of being on this site, I had more male profiles who posted no picture, same characteristics, changle location frequently, and the profiles themselves questionable in respect ot how they presented themselve. I deleted my profile. I did recognize some people I knew from other sites who were legit, but the site itself left me with a creepy feeling and the scammers seemed to be persistant even if there emails were deleted.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by emma

emma — Sun, 16 May 2010 17:55:02 +0000

my boyfriend is 16 and he cheated on me with a 22 year old i really really love him and i dont know what to do please help me !

Comment on DateHookup.com Review (datehookup) by anonymous

anonymous — Thu, 13 May 2010 23:33:53 +0000

met a girl on there..dated her long distance for a few months…it was great but the distance bein too much resulted in her cheating on me..but yea..the site is legit..

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Tue, 11 May 2010 18:29:42 +0000

lori, that’s a tough one but as most people say – go with your gut feeling. I would be very alert to changes in his attitude and mannerisms towards you. If he becomes very short and defensive with these questions you ask him then you might want to spend more time taking care of yourself.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by lori

lori — Tue, 11 May 2010 02:16:30 +0000

hey i’m 36 and i went to my so called bf house and was cleaning and found a condom, but i confonted him bout it and he first denied it been there but when he got home and seen it i asked him again and he said its bullshit that it was old condom but it makes me think when i’m not with him is he cheating .i don’t know whether to believe him or not so tell me what would you do bout it . it make me cry and be upset all day it made my stomach hurt help me please!!!

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by Ann

Ann — Sun, 09 May 2010 20:12:12 +0000

“some gifts are 750 coins, which could cost at the cheapest rate .106 cents per coin” which if you do the math is 80 cents… NOT 80 dollars.

I’m not a zoosk member but I just wanted to point out the typo before more people bought into the rant without checking the math themselves.

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by Oliver

Oliver — Sun, 09 May 2010 12:22:52 +0000

I couldn’t Agree more with Jonathan. Everything he said is true. The worst thing is there is no come back with the organisers. I was cut off without explanation but no doubt they will still try to continue my membership after the few months are up from my initial membership and I am now going to contact my bank to ensure zoosk can’t extract any more money from me. Nothing but a big scam. Do not waste your time!

Comment on White Label Dating Technology by Lisa Moskotova

Lisa Moskotova — Sun, 02 May 2010 09:42:41 +0000

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Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Wed, 07 Apr 2010 18:32:57 +0000

nick, let her know that you don’t appreciate her kissing someone else and let her know that it hurt a lot. This will help her understand your feelings towards her and should put both of you back on the same path.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Nick

Nick — Wed, 07 Apr 2010 01:17:33 +0000

Hey everyone i had found out about a week ago my girlfreidn had kissed another dude be hind my back. But i really like her for who she is. A song to represent what i am thinknig is sliverstein- smile in youre sleep. look it up and you will get alot more of what is happening. I dont know what to do next i dont want to dump her but i jsut dont know if she will do it again to me or not i know its a risky move to take and i dont want to go throguh the pain all over again. We still havent settled much and i dont know what to say to her… Can some one pelase e mail me with some awsners i have had really weird emo thoughts lateley so please e mail me back. at nickpwnin@yahoo.com

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by Nora Saunders

Nora Saunders — Fri, 02 Apr 2010 23:25:16 +0000

wow. sounds like a rip-off. I was going to check it out but never mind. Im not even going to waste my time.

Thanks for taking the time to review and post. You never know how many people you help.

Hey- why dont you start a “I Hate Zoosk Blog” or “Zoosk is a rip-off” blog. There are probaby thousands and thousands of you. Throw some ads up of BETTER services after expolring their payment terms & co. Become an affiliate of them and make some quick money….cha-ching!!!
Capitalize on that crappy ass service.

Nora

Comment on Andrew Conru by Nora Saunders

Nora Saunders — Fri, 02 Apr 2010 23:05:43 +0000

This was an excellent interview. Straight to the point and very informative. Good information is very hard to come by in the online dating industry. I am looking at launching some niche sites now and I have a hard time putting together my projected goals one to six months from now because what smaller partners are making in the niche online industry are so hush hush.
Are they doing well or not? Probably.

Thanks for the great interview

Nora

Comment on JDate.com Review (Jdate) by destiny taiwo

destiny taiwo — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 19:53:00 +0000

hi i like this site it make you to meet a lot of love friends and the people that love you when you think nobody love you.try this site you will know what i m talking about

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 18:36:14 +0000

Ben, looks like both of you weren’t really ready to commit and still might not be. You two should sit down and have a serious conversation about your relationship and the direction you want it to go in. If you truly want an exclusive relationship with her than let her know this and that there will be no sleeping with other people – even if you drank a bit to much.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Ben

Ben — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 10:47:49 +0000

My girlfriend and i had been together for 8 months. We broke up 3 weeks ago but we still keep seeing each other. anyway i slept my ex gf from 4 yrs ago after a drunken night of stupidity 3 wks before i broke up with my gf then last week i found out my gf slept with her ex 1 wk before we ended it. i confronted her about it and she told me she was drunk and he was persistant and that she hated what she did then i come clean and told her about me. Anyway i thought that was it.. we would no longer have contact with each other then later that night she rang me and asked if i wanted to hangout i said yes which lead to me spending the night and sleeping with her. now im confused as we both still love each other but have lost the trust for each other. where do i go from here??

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 18:39:12 +0000

Brooke, your sister has to find out who wrote the email. It might be a person trying to ruin your sister’s boyfriend’s life. Try and do some fact checking before going overboard.

Comment on Interracial Romance by Juan

Juan — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 18:35:51 +0000

Great comment Nataliya a I agree with you there could be some difference but in the end if you are really in love you will overcome all that.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Brooke

Brooke — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 17:10:15 +0000

ok my big sister kim shes 30 has this boyfriend and they have been dating for 1 year and she just got an e-mail saying that your boyfriend is cheating on you and i have none this for a long time sorry but i cant tell you who this is………… shes been crying for 5 hours stright help help plz plz………….:(

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 19:15:31 +0000

Lauren – tough one here. A lot of how you handle this is dependent on what type of person you are. If you are able to fully forgive him for stupidity in what I call “e-Cheating” on a dating site then you might be able to work through this with him. If you keep on thinking that he is cheating on you every time he is away then it’ll become a self-fulfilling prophecy and the anger that you will have towards him will usually trigger him to do those type of actions. You need to build your relationship on trust. He needs to be able to trust that you won’t be digging through his personal items as well. To be honest with you if you check most of the top dating sites online you will see that there are tons of married people trolling the sites both male and female.

One thing you need to get cleared right away is to be firm but not crazy that you don’t appreciate him both lying to you and engaging into an online relationship with some person that he doesn’t even know. See what his reaction is to this conversation and then make your decision on whether you want to then forgive him and move forward or break the engagement. Good luck. Let us know how it goes.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Lauren

Lauren — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 18:15:20 +0000

Ok, so I’m engaged we have been together for 8 months he was in the army b4 we met and got out he came down to New Orleans for vacation where I’m from he’s from Texas and when we met we got each others number and then he kept asking me out and I kept saying no because the distance and he picked up his life and moved here to be with me so everything was great I ended up falling in love with him he said he knew I was the one for him ever since we met so now we both decided that it was best for him to join the Navy because he couldn’t keep a job, and then he asked me to marry him and I said “Yes”. Before he left i was going through his email and this girl and him were emailing each other and he said “I Love You Baby” to her and I lost it and he said someone hacked his email but now he’s doing his training for the Navy and I’m scared he’s cheating on me he left everything at home, his truck, clothes, our dog. I have everything that he owns except a suitcase with some clothes. I talked to that girl and she said they met on a online dating site and they never met but he emails her. I told her to leave him alone but what do I do?? Do I leave him or talk to him when he gets home in 35 days???

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:37:54 +0000

Isabel, time to concentrate on yourself and dedicate your time to education and hobbies. Love will find you.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Isabel

Isabel — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 01:27:15 +0000

I have a boyfriend and he just cheated on me on may way to mexico.and iam very hurt rright now i dont know what to do he deserves to sufer too.and what is wrost that iam deep in him:(

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 18:09:45 +0000

Yo Adam. You just need to walk away from her. This is bad news for you man. She is showing signs of serial cheating and obviously has some issues with being faithful. Especially if she has done this with one of your friends. Not cool.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Adam

Adam — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 10:48:05 +0000

So my girlfriend cheated on me about two months ago. She lied about it until now and she did it again with another guy that was my friend and after all that I still love her but now just too she slept with some one else what do I do?

Comment on DateHookup.com Review (datehookup) by rosy

rosy — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 19:57:05 +0000

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Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by jonathan frodsham

jonathan frodsham — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 02:31:03 +0000

Zoosk can be a bit of a rip off. You have to be very carful if you have premium membership as it will automatically renew and you will be charged. On most sites that have a membership you can cancel on the same day that you signed up and the benefits of you membership will continue until the date expires. Not so with Zoosk: By canceling your premium membership now, you immediately forfeit all your premium membership benefits. If you wish to continue taking advantage of premium membership benefits before the next payment is due, cancel at a later time (before the next payment is due.) So you have to remember to cancel as close as possible to the cut off date. This is outrageous; I view it as a scam. Zoosk says this about it: We hate worrying about paying bills as much as you do. That’s why we automatically renew your membership so you have one less thing to worry about. Remember that you can always cancel your membership by visiting the settings page and if you are paying via PayPal, it is a one time charge and will not automatically renew. The above statement from Zoosk is crap, it is only another way to extract money in a sneaky way, but they can not do it with pay pal for technical reasons, if they could they would. They could easily change it so benefits of your membership will continue until the date expires, but they do not as extraction money from you in anyway possible is the goal. The other things to look out for is coins, it will top up automatically if you don’t turn the function off. Zoosk should have the auto-refill set at off, so it you wish you can turn it on. Zoosk say this: We want to make it easy for you to send gifts, unlock conversations, or send a special delivery to that special Zoosker. That’s why we offer the option to automatically refill your Coins balance when it reaches 10 or less, so you have one less thing to worry about. Remember that you can always un-check this option when you purchase Coins by credit card, or by visiting Settings, and then Coins to turn this option off after your purchase. If you are paying for Coins via PayPal or bank transfer, it is a one-time charge and will not automatically refill. One less thing to worry about, what crap, they are hoping you will not notice that you have to turn it off. The price of gifts is outrageous, some gifts are 750 coins, which could cost at the cheapest rate .106 cents per coin would be 750 x .01067= $80. At the high end it would be 750 x.1578= $118.42 that’s eighty dollars for a virtual gift at the cheapest rate. How zoosk can justify such an outrageous price for a virtual gift is beyond me. Its just click spend money, click spend more money. On premium membership all gifts should be free, and charging up to $1.58 for delivery conformation and special delivery up to $2.37 is another rip off. In short Zoosk is a money extraction machine. I sent them an email asking to explain but all I got back from them was a copy paste answer, which did not answer ANY of my questions.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 18:46:27 +0000

dan, why don’t you start text flirting with him? See if you can resesitate your relationship by being ‘the other woman’. Some men like the fantasy.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by dan

dan — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 15:10:46 +0000

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Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by dan

dan — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 00:58:00 +0000

Hi! i have this kind of problem… i and my husband is living together as a couple for more than 8 years.But those years, we always had fight and hurting each others feelings. We always fight about his text mate i figure it out that he always keep on touch with his women in a very caring and romantic way which he never do that to me.And two years ago i found out that he had a sex on text with her friend.I believe he had an intimate relationship with this girl and not just in cellphones. And until now i still recall all those betrayal he did to me. Even i would say that i forgive and forget about it but still always coming back. I’ll will be having a peace of mine if he will tell me the truth and always be honest to me. Please help me… i don’t know what to do.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 18:43:51 +0000

D~z1l, honesty is the best policy. Been truthful with each other and to yourselves – are you both ready to settle down and commit to each other? This needs to be discussed and brought to the forefront of your relationship.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by D~z1l

D~z1l — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 00:28:55 +0000

well basicly i had dis girlfriend ive been goin out with for 3 years and like 4 months nd i found out recently that she cheated on me multiple times after she movedd and stoped going to the same school as me she slept with 1 of my friends last year and she slept with some dude when she 1st moved and she went out with multiple people and lied to me about parties etz. but heres the catch i did basiclly everything she did but not every thing and when i ask her why she said becuse of who i use to be and how i was wiyh other girls she dosent kno that ive cheated on her because ive been the best bf in her discription to her and the best lover so i tried to work it out and talk to her but deep down i dnt think shes telling the whole truth nd she is currently pregnant and claims its by me and she lives with me and every day its like hell but we both love each other and dont want to leave what should i do?

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 21:53:19 +0000

Tyler, I don’t think you did anything wrong expect to continue to get back in a relationship with this person. As they say there are a lot of fish in the sea. You would be better off spending more time with school work (if your in school) or more time at work (if you work) and not worry about a realtionship. Keep your head up and love will find you.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Tyler

Tyler — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 21:37:26 +0000

Yesterday I just found out my girlfriend cheated on me again….this time alot worse than last time…The first time she cheated was in december and it was a couple make out sesh’s with a guy named Cord…i was like wow…so i broke up with her…later on cord broke up with her and she came back to me..we made out and stuff. Then she said she had to pick one of us on new years…she picked cord and then they did some stuff…but not sex. Later that night i went to her house and she kissed me a couple times…then cord and her broke up. We had sex and then got back together the next day…there was a day towards the end of janurary though where her and cord went to go see a movie and im like wtf? she said tyler just trust me and i was like ok…now that was the re-cap…ok so things were going pretty good in our relationship and i be-friended cord and his friends…so i was chillin with his friend john one day and he tells me did u hear what ur girl and cord did at the movies that one day? I was like no? what? he said she blowed cord and made out…im like wtf ur lieing and he said ask her…i did and she said yes…she said she was regretful and dont know what came over…i was like wow…i cant believe you…you have broken my heart all these times and u expect me to not break up with u…she said ur my one true love and i said i dont know if i can believe that anymore…i dont know what to do…should i break up with her or stay with her? im really confused because i dont know what i did wrong…ive put so much thought into it but i dont know what to do…i need help…i need an answer…if someone could reply back to this that would be great! thank you :]

Comment on DateHookup.com Review (datehookup) by Brian

Brian — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 19:02:47 +0000

I sent a lot of friend requests to a lot of girls on there and none of them read the request it’s been 3 days now something isn’t right

Comment on Meetic.com Review (Meetic) by Yasmine

Yasmine — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 01:42:59 +0000

Watch their dubious billing practices. You pay top dollar for one month premium pass and they continue to bill you each month until you suspend your account!! The point of a one month pass is to try for one month without obligation … one payment only – not that they continue to take funds until you suspend the account! Not good business practice.

Comment on Finding Love on Facebook by Nicole

Nicole — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 05:06:35 +0000

Well, I didn’t even realize that facebook nowadays is slowly becoming a dating site.

But anyway, nothing’s impossible. Since facebook allows us to find people and add friends of friends, we may be able to find and befriend people whom we think are interesting enough.

It just depends on the person if they’ll reciprocate or respond to our friend requests and try to build a connection with us as well.

But bear in mind that nothing’s safe when doing things online. Never forget to consider some privacy settings in your profile.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 18:55:25 +0000

You can give him one more chance. Let him know that you see leaving romantic text messages and love messages on facebook as a form of cheating and if he does it again then you are ready to walk. Be strong.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by taye

taye — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 02:03:02 +0000

Ive been with my boyfriend alittle over a year and my family loves him cause hes a nice guy. One day i found a number romantic text messages on his phone. i confronted him about it hes says its a mistake and wont happen again. yesterday i found that he and some girl possibly his ex where still leaving love messages to each other on facebook. I m really in love with this guy and i dont know should i talk it out and make it work or just leave the relationship.

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by Al Joulson

Al Joulson — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 05:58:22 +0000

Its metoric rise probably has something to do with those “big boob” advertisement banners they stick everywhere. Gawd, have ya seen those things!?!?

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Mike

Mike — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 04:51:57 +0000

I’m 16, and currently have a girlfriend. She had an emotional attachment to an ex, while we started to date. on the night of our first kiss, she went around to her ex’s place (she was living their at the time) and the ex was drunk. the ex was coming on to my girlfriend and she challenged him that she couldn’t be tempted by him to try and prove a point, but they ended up sleeping with each other. I know she likes me more, but they had had sex before but we hadn’t and didn’t expect sex from me.

My girl lied to me and broke up with me on other terms (such as my studies which are important to me – exams were on-) but i eventually won her back. I learned 2 months in exactly what happened from the ex, who was drunk again. I also became good friends with him. My girl told me all the details today as I forced them out of her, but she didn’t want to tell me because she didn’t want us to break up. I know she genuinely actually loves me, and I really like her back.

What should I do?? She’s my first real girlfriend and I want to run away from ever thinking of that night, as it is now ruined. She is currently not having a good time because i haven’t talked to her since she told me the truth and I didn’t say we were going to stay together. I could never forgive her but should I stay with her? I don’t feel the same way I do towards her before I know the details of her cheating. I thought they were both intoxicated or something. Help!

Comment on Writing a Creative Personal Ad by Omar

Omar — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 07:25:14 +0000

I appreciate the samples here. I would, however, like a more analytical breakdown of what are the key componants that cause a direct response. You said that these ads were written by copywriters. Could you take some of these ads and show me step-by-step what makes them grab the attention of the target audience, and gets them to take action?

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by mi

mi — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 05:31:18 +0000

hi love guru…. i made a mistake and when i saw him online i said how are u… but he never reply…i know it’s a wrong move… he always has a way of making me feel guilty that i was the one who upset him…… and u know what, i saw his mom the other night and when i mentioned that i caught him cheating through chat with other girls, she only said, it’s just chat…… honestly speaking, i never nagged him that day, it just happen that the computer shop was too small for the guys to hear our conversation, and one commented that he was caught by a police… i guess that was the one made an impact to him and that probably he felt like he lost
his manly ego…
i don’t want us not to be talking until xmas but i guess he’s the one who doesn’t want to talk now…
i want to tell him that the only thing i want is for me to be the only one…but i don’t know how to start… is it ok to tell him in email since he never reply to me… and sometimes, i just want to break it off, coz he’s making me upset…. and i am leaving next month to work abroad but we’re still gonna see each other coz he’s gonna be there also by march, but we’re not in the same company. i love him and i think we’re really cool together like i can tell him anything under the sun and he’s the same except those he knows that will make me upset…
i think we can still work it out and we will be happy when we’re abroad coz he can’t do those kiddie stuff when he started to work and i feel that we’re gonna be much closer coz he can only rely to me as his companion….
right now i always saw him online wid view his webcam , and for sure he’s flirting wid someone… when we we’re still ok, he has less time for chatting coz he visits me here at home and we watch dvd or play psp or even watching porn on the net……i’m afraid the more time we don’t talk, the more time he has to chat wid them and maybe to find someone he gets comfortable with….. i’ve always been ever supported to him that i helped him with his resume and finding a job while here, but he was never lucky to have one… i helped him wid his finances like when his motor cycle malfunctioned and when i send him to the hospital… his mom promised to pay me by new yr… i don’t know if he’s just using me bec im convenient to him and i forgive him even he’s not saying his sorry…. i think he get used to that… im really sad that we’re not gonna spend the xmas together coz im not gonna beg him to be ok…. i already made an effor of saying how are u but he never reply……
i only have 2 weeks before i leave the country, and i guess we should be spending it to together, i don’t know what to do anymore…. it feels like im gonna lose him…. is it ok to great him merry xmas and give gift to his mom… and just be casual…… honestly speaking, if i read ur reply before i was online , i will never initiate any conversation, i know it made my situation worst…..
i believe we should fight for love, and i know if i’ll just move on, but in our situation, we never had a really big fight, it’s just petty quarrel but it really affects me….. and every time i hear his motorcycle passing by i can’t help to look, but he never see me looking at him… i miss him so much….. do u have any good suggestion…. ill make sure ill check ur reply first before making any move…..i think he has this impression that whatever he do, ill keep coming back to him….. pls help me… thanks

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 22:16:38 +0000

My suggestion to you here is to not initiate any conversation with him as he is expecting you to do so and your relationship with him from his perspective seems to be out of convenience. If he isn’t willing to accept fault in these matters then he continue down this path of behavior and you will continue to be hurt by it. I would let him know not in a nagging way that if he has any intentions of having a relationship with you that he needs to be honest and committed to you. It seems that his passion for playing poker is really important to him. You’ll need to accept that if you want to get serious with him as that looks to be a deal breaker for him.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by mi

mi — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 21:12:00 +0000

I have a boyfriend who’s 24 yrs old but never acts like his age…. he’s fond of playing poker, basketball, computer games and the like….sometimes, I don’t feel that he loves me cuz he lied to me many times like when we have a date, he told me he’s out with his mom but I saw him just playing poker, then I was about to watch his game as an ever loyal GF but when I called him to know the exact place of the game, he said they change venue, but I saw him with his guy friend on the old venue he told me about… then the last one is I saw him online, then he told me he was chatting with his sister, when in fact I caught him chatting with other girls he just knew from a social space. Sometimes, I do feel that he loves me like when he introduced me to all his family members, he helped us last Typhoon Ondoy, and when he was intoxicated and almost died, he looked for me, and I think we really had a connection through these times. Every time we fight, he really never says he’s sorry, but instead we’ll just see each other one day (cuz we are neighbors) and act like as if nothing happened, or sometimes when we see each other online, he’ll buzz me and then we talk like friends again…. the last time he made me upset was when I caught him chatting with other girls, instead of saying he will not do it again, he said he’s just chatting and talking and he’s not courting anyone and don’t have a plan of meeting them… I’m really upset that I don’t talk to him anymore, but the worst is he will never initiate to talk to me either… and the last thing he said was, he felt devastated cuz the guys in the computer shop laughed at him when I caught him that time… but I never nagged or anything I just said, if u are really just friends with these girls, then why don’t you introduce me, but he never did…. What should I do? pls… I need help… thanks.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 21:06:32 +0000

Sounds like he is not ready to be in a steady relationship and wants to play the field. Age and maturity have a big play in this as men tend to mature at a slower rate then women. Video games, hanging out with the boys and bar hopping sounds like an early 20s mentality that hopefully he’ll be able to grow out of soon enough. If he is serious and committed to having a relationship with you then he’ll need to prove it by his actions. You hold the cards now so slow play your hand for the best results.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Mike

Mike — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 17:51:48 +0000

Hey, I’m confused on what I should I do. My girlfriend cheated on me about 2 weeks ago from another guy but she said she was thinking about me as they were kissing.. about 2 days ago she broke up with her boyfriend and said she liked him but she loved me. She cheated on me once and from what I’ve heard she has cheated on all of her previous boyfriends too. She wants to get back together but I’m in a tough situation. I don’t know what to do. Can someone please get back to me on this.

Comment on Finding Love on Facebook by Kevin

Kevin — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 17:50:18 +0000

Interesting..Honestly, personally I have never trolled the lists of friends of friends and just hadn’t thought about doing it. But now that you mention it, it makes perfect sense. One thing you didn’t mention which does complicate this approach a bit is the addition of gaming applications to Facebook such as Mafia Wars. This gaming application on Facebook requires that a person added to your mafia must first be added as friend in facebook. This is why you see some people with 5,000 plus friends. Most of them are probably gaming friends. The same is true for any other Zynga network game interfacing with Facebook. So from a dating perspective, you cannot trust that your friend knows all their friends in this instance or that they can vouch for them being good people.

Another issue with Facebook is the apparent sense of privacy you get and I am using the word apparent deliberately and loosely. If you do not know what you are doing, it is very easy to give away information to applications other friends have installed without knowing you have done so. Also, the latest Facebook privacy updates make indexing of your profile searchable by search engines by default. It also exposes all of your friends and fan pages by default in the basic profile. What does this mean? Well, for example if you had become a fan of an anarchist page purely out of curiosity, then this would be exposed to the world if your profile is indexed and to all Facebook users if your profile is not indexed. And obviously, people make judgments every day based upon small amounts of information like this. It can all be very complicated for users who are not very technical.

Keep in mind that social networking applications would not exist if they could not make money and it is in their best interest to be able to sell information about you that allows advertisers to target you with their marketing. Don’t misunderstand my point here. I’m not slamming Facebook. My post is purely from the perspective that if you are going to use social networking sites for dating and messaging and all of the other things we used to do in person, be aware of what that entails and be smart in how you use such tools. Lock down your profile by default. Check the privacy settings regularly to insure that nothing has changed and restrict your posts as if you were were writing on a postcard addressed to the world. …Peace..Kevin

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Lonely Girl

Lonely Girl — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 04:05:19 +0000

My boyfriend told me he was just going to spend the night hanging with the guys, having a couple drinks while playing video games, or watching a movie. They ended up going to the bars, and he ended up seeing a friend he’s kind of had a thing for, for a while. They ended up both getting completely and totally drunk, and ended up making out three different times. She has a boyfriend as well, so she ended up lying and telling him a different story than what my boyfriend told me. The only good I can see is that he told me the next time he saw me, which happened to be the next day. The problem is that I want to work things out with him and be in a relationship, but he’s not questioning everything. I’ve been told that time will help, if we just have a little space, because emotions are running high right now and confusing the both of us. I just don’t know what to do, because I want to be with him, but I don’t know if that’s the best thing to do.

Comment on Age Gap Relationships by Davey

Davey — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 13:44:18 +0000

Hi. Am 65, former teacher, now retired, but I don’t look it, feel it, or act my age, at times. Do want a younger female from 30 to 50, who is very feminine, shapely, buxom, mature, trustworthy, responsible, caring, d/d-free, no-marriage, livein, and fun to be with. I’m a pisces; want an earth or water sign.

Comment on Match.com Launches Free Dating Site (DowntoEarth.com) by Brendan

Brendan — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 15:48:29 +0000

So, I checked out downtoearth.com and now it’s some other crap about finding bars and clubs in the area. No sir, I don’t like it.

I also seem to be the only person in the world who doesn’t like PlentyOfFish. I just find it a little too unrefined. I like OKCupid, but haven’t had much luck on there – not that I’m blaming the site.

Comment on Ashley Madison Review (AshleyMadison.com) by cherise

cherise — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 18:03:12 +0000

Regarding Ashley Madison….i would love discuss and issue i am having with Ashley Madison. They have continuously suspended my account, one after another newlt created ones, because on one earlier profile, i made the mistake of blowing a few men off, by asking for money. NOT my intent at all, but, they suspended that account, and have suspended every new account i have created. Now, obviously, they are reading my mail messages. Is this not an invasion of my pricacy? I cannot beleive the odacity of this company, and feel they should be taken to the carpet over this. The nerve! Any lawyers out there, willing to fight this one, please let me know. Thanks.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by In Love and confused

In Love and confused — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 16:39:24 +0000

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We are both deeply in love with one another. I went to the states just this past weekend, I was gone for two days! My friend was having a moving away party and I come back to hear that my boyfriend had sex with one of my good friends while he was really drunk. When I talked to him about it, he was actually crying he was upset cause he didn’t remember it happening and it hurt him to hurt me like this. I asked my friend if they used a condom and she said they didn’t, and she could possibly be pregnant. I’m a little worried. About a year and a half ago I was really high and I cheated on him, sadly, i gave guy a blow job but I never cheated on him with sexual intercourse. We’re kind of at an even boat here, we both did it and felt like crap and agreed its not something that we would ever want happening again. Should I break up with him or should we stay together and continue or relationship as good as it was? What if he made my friend pregnant without meaning to?

-Confused

Comment on DateHookup.com Review (datehookup) by ROSE

ROSE — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 16:15:15 +0000

you are right about that i caught my husband recently on that, he posted himself as 10 years younger etc……

Comment on White Label Dating Technology by Chris

Chris — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 04:01:02 +0000

After looking into many options I decided to go for World Dating Partners for my site: http://www.ecinderella.com/ since they’re straight forward, have a fantastic site statistics and offer lots of material to market your site if (like me) you’re the new kid on the block. I’m also looking into EasyDate (John Looney please get back to me) since their sites have that kind of “Good Looks” I’m looking for. I will return and post an update after (and if…) a relationship with ED will be established.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 23:36:52 +0000

Sounds like this so called “GF” of yours is young and wild and doesn’t want to be locked into any type of relationship right now. If you really think you love her and see what she is doing to other guys then you might want to take a closer look at the situation with yourself removed. I wouldn’t go calling her your girlfriend when she already has another boyfriend and is sleeping with other guys. This sounds like a recipe for disaster for all involved and be careful not to catch any diseases in the meantime.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Kev

Kev — Sun, 04 Oct 2009 07:41:40 +0000

Hey I’m really confused my GF of 3 months has another BF that I know about and she is having a sexual relationship with him but also cheating with other different guys at the same time but is honest about it with me. I’m really in love with her and she is too. She’s helped me through a lot and she starting to stop cheating with her friends as far as I know and she had this BF before I met her. What should I do??? I don’t think I can live
without her.

Comment on eHarmony Gay Dating Service (Compatible Partners) by Love Guru

Love Guru — Mon, 21 Sep 2009 23:34:11 +0000

I was just doing some research and saw that eHarmony.com owns the domain “GayHarmony.com”. That would be a perfect brand for this product instead of a “gay” dot net domain like CompatiblePartners.net.

Comment on Zoosk.com Review – (Zoosk) by loginrogerwilco

loginrogerwilco — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 02:11:49 +0000

Heh. I had no idea about these apps. Thanks!

Comment on 100% Free Dating Sites – Really? by loginrogerwilco

loginrogerwilco — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 02:07:11 +0000

It’s kind of amazing just how many dating sites are out there.
I just started late august and it seems I run across one or more every day.
Appreciate the list! There’s a few I’ve never heard of.

Comment on Match.com Launches Free Dating Site (DowntoEarth.com) by loginrogerwilco

loginrogerwilco — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 02:03:44 +0000

For what it’s worth:” I just became a member of Down to Earth. And you’re right, it looks clean and functional.
As an old Guy, my only problem is it seems to cater to the younger crowd.

Comment on Writing a Creative Personal Ad by Mike Shea

Mike Shea — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 01:51:54 +0000

Well, I’ll study it. Seems to be many conflicting ideas in regards to this topic, but at first glance, they look good!

Thanks

Mike

Comment on Chemistry.com Review (chemistry) by mithral

mithral — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 20:31:24 +0000

Was subject to an untwated billing renewal after I discontinued the service and they would only give half my money back. I will never use this dating site again.

Good security initially. Average in all otherways. VERY expensive for what you get compared to similar services.

Got lots of matches at first, but then figured out most of those matches were old and/or deactive. Once I started getting matches they were the same people I saw on the local free dating pages.

Comment on JDate.com Review (Jdate) by Eric

Eric — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 06:18:21 +0000

I’m embarrassed to be a jew for having to deal with the types of women or should I say “NYC women” that frequent JDate.
These girls need some serious online dating ettiquette. I can’t count how many times I’ve had my IM’s fail. Every guy is automatically assumed to be a loser, wierdo, or freak. I’m positive they place fake profiles on there to boost their numbers.

Comment on Age Gap Relationships by Peter Sjöberg

Peter Sjöberg — Mon, 24 Aug 2009 10:00:47 +0000

For me it would be nice with a younger female… I am 45 and she should be 20 -35… dont think thats to bad

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 17:45:21 +0000

Waterflows – Sounds like you might want to just let her go. You can still have feelings for her but if she can’t stand to be alone and you guys are in a long distance relationship then it’ll keep happening. You don’t want to have her come back if she is away for school. There might be a time later in life where things might work out for you guys better. Keep the friendship if you value it and don’t be a nut case that she cheated as it is a pretty common thing with long distance relationships. Be happy that she actually told you and that you didn’t hear about it 2nd hand.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Waterflows

Waterflows — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 17:37:35 +0000

Hi..My GF of 4 years just informed me that she cheated a week and a half ago. She could look me in the eyes. She is very emotional so she was crying a lot. We have been trying to do this long distance relationship but she just spoiled it. She said she was feeling lonely and needed somebody. She is a great person if you meet her. She has to start school by September in another city and she’s telling me that she wants to come back and that she can’t do this thing. I hate the feeling of betrayal but I really do care about her. The worst thing is that I bought her a ring recently which she knows about and she still cheated. I was trying my best to keep the interest high. I was supposed to go see her beginning of August but I didn’t make it which made her mum hate me. I know I have a lot ahead of me. Should I go ahead and forgive her and make her come back or let her go. Should I cut her out? Should I test it out for the second time? She even said the condom broke.

Comment on Ashley Madison Review (AshleyMadison.com) by truthhurts

truthhurts — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 22:35:15 +0000

Ashley Madison is pretty much a pipe dream for men who are hoping they can find an alternative to the obvious rules of nature.

you will realize this truth quickly.

Most of the women’s ads on AM are false profiles wich serve as bait for the man who wants to believe there are millions of married women dying to have sex with him.

False ads account for about 95+% of the ads.

Of the remaining less than 5% that are not false ads, about half are from professional escorts.

The remaining legitimate ads are from real wives who are fat, old, unsightly. no wonder they need to pay a website to find someone who would want to touch them.

the simple fact of life is that an attractive woman that you would want to do, doesn’t need help finding a man to fuck them. an attractive woman is offered free sex everyday of her life.

the point is the website works hard to get your money. all those fake ads are constantly hitting you up for chat, try to get you engage in email exchange, and send collect emails all of which will run through your credits pretty quickly as you are charged for contact, not by the month.

a pretty good scam that preys on men’s fatal weakness.

LET THE BUYER BEWARE!! if you’re that horny, save your money and get a girl drunk! your chances of success are 50/50. even if you fail, at least you’ll get to hang out with a real girl and you’ll get a buzz.

Comment on Match.com Launches Free Dating Site (DowntoEarth.com) by judek4sky

judek4sky — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 11:38:14 +0000

I am so happy that I found POF! I only wish I could find more like it. I used to be on E-harmony. I stayed on for a year but didn’t have a connection with any of my “matches.” Personally, I felt it was a scam bc like another blogger wrote, people fill out their own profile questionnaire and overrate themselves in most categories, so it’s no different than meeting someone on POF or any other site. I mean, those people weren’t any more of a match for me than what I would meet elsewhere. I don’t know why people pay for this type of service still, but they say there’s one born every minute so I guess that has something to do with it?

Comment on Ashley Madison Review (AshleyMadison.com) by franc black

franc black — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 02:25:48 +0000

same experience as the first two fellows

it’s a money sink, and I wouldn’t be surprised if they pay people to ‘drum up interest’ within the site to get boner boys like me to type in their credit card numbers…

Good work, Thomas, but I sure don’t have the patience of one year of trying. Easier to hook up at the library…

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 21:43:07 +0000

This sounds like a pretty common incident where people that are feeling neglected in a relationship will sometime confide in co-workers about their problems and a lot of times they have their own hidden agendas. I would tell her that if she has any issues with you to talk directly to you about it and if she needs to take a break to think about things then to do that instead of cheating and breaking your trust.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by rad_shifter@yahoo.com

rad_shifter@yahoo.com — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 21:36:17 +0000

My GF admits cheating on me I forgive her but she still blames me for what she did because I did not pay enough attention to her and that @$$hole which is her co-worker takes advantage of our misunderstanding and she also admits that she kissed the guy and regrets doing that. WTF should i do?

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 21:35:09 +0000

Sounds like you guys are in a pretty casual relationship and not “deeply in love” each other. People that are deeply in love don’t act that way and she might need to just grow up a little bit more and if you are fine with waiting around for it to possibly happen and don’t mind the mental anguish then go right ahead but my advice to you is to keep it casual with her until she is ready to commit to your relationship fully.

Comment on Ashley Madison Review (AshleyMadison.com) by chris kannenniet

chris kannenniet — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 18:36:38 +0000

Ashley Madison is a glorified chat room at best and probably run and operated by chatters. Women looking for men are swamped with e-mails almost immediately. If your a good chatter you can rise above the ranks and chat with a lonely women posting 10 year old pictures of herself when she was 30 lbs thinner. Some genus ex chatter came up with the idea of how to get chatters to pay for chatting, the men get to bid for the attention of women and the women get to be pedistlised and dotted upon by groveling males and both parties get to pay for it…..pure genus

Comment on JDate.com Review (Jdate) by gabriel

gabriel — Sun, 19 Jul 2009 20:31:38 +0000

i love this site

Comment on DateHookup.com Review (datehookup) by 1pissedmomma

1pissedmomma — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:08:13 +0000

A lot of vulgar harrassment by a person or persons allowed to create multiple profiles each day making death threats towards women and children and nothing being done about keeping them from the site.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Izzy

Izzy — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 13:57:56 +0000

My girlfriend cheated on me three times, once in London because she felt lonely, another time with her friend who she never wanted to get physical with, and lastly with one of my friends, and they made out in his car. There was nothing more than making out and she tells me that she gets caught up in the moment and can’t help herself, but once she’s in the middle of it she realizes she’s making a big mistake, and she told me about all three of them when they happened, I’m deeply in love with her, and she is deeply in love with me, we started to fool around but I couldn’t help think that that guy probably did this exact thing to her. What am I supposed to do now?

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 20:59:38 +0000

That makes it more complex for sure. You don’t want to shut him out totally. You just need a little time to work this out in your head and set your emotions aside. You can still love someone but don’t have to be with them. You need to think about what is going to be best for you and your baby. Give him a little time to think about the mess he just created and be adult about your actions on how you are handling this situation.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by chunky monkey

chunky monkey — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 20:50:44 +0000

And I’m pregnant. Should I still talk to him after I leave just cuz of the baby? Or do I just shut him out? I really love him and I’m scared if I don’t stop talking to him I’m just going to be continuously hurt.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 20:34:56 +0000

First of all do not feel like you are at fault at all in this mess. How can he say it is not his fault that he pulled out his penis and had unprotected sex with another girl and got her pregnant. Sounds like he has developed a track record of this type of behavior. The first thing you need to do is stop blaming yourself and break up with this guy immediately before you send the wrong message to him that it is okay to be doing this to women. Do not text or call him no matter how sad you might be feeling. Let him call you and you can decide whether you want to talk to him and work things out. If you call him then you are just putting yourself more out there for more relationship abuse.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by chunky monkey

chunky monkey — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 20:23:21 +0000

I got an email from a girl I’ve only met once. She told me to call her so I did. She told me that my bf of almost a year cheated on me while I was out of town with one of my best friends and that she went to the doctor this morning to get an abortion. She was pregnant with twins. 6 weeks. So I told my bf I know and he told me it wasn’t his fault and that he loves me more than anything else. I’m so hurt that he didn’t tell me ‘cuz i had to hear it from someone I hardly know and I don’t know what I want to do. He has texted his ex and told her how he misses her and how he wishes he could help her with her sexual needs and he sent pics of “himself” if you get my meaning to someone he doesn’t even know that he met on the internet. Now this. I feel so hurt and betrayed. I feel like I’m not worth anything at all and that other women are so much better than me. What do I do? I love him so much but I feel like he doesn’t love me or want me around. If he did he wouldn’t be hurting me like this. What do I do?

Comment on Ashley Madison Review (AshleyMadison.com) by Thomas

Thomas — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 02:50:02 +0000

I have spent money on this site too…and came up empty over and over…BUT…finally after maybe a year of contacting women selectively…don’t contact the ones with unbelievable profiles or pics…I met a very cool married woman who lives close to me. We’ve been seeing each other for close to 6 months now…her hubby travels during the week…perfect. She treats me like a king once or twice a week…wow!

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 16:14:48 +0000

You don’t have to tell him that you found his password but tell him that you are uncomfortable with him seeing or talking to his ex. The biggest issue here is his need for intimacy because your relationship is long distance. I am sure that if you were closer to him and top of mind that the situation would be different. I wouldn’t suggest emailing her even though the impulse to do so is so strong. She’ll then use this against you. Guys will in most cases fall for the friends with benefits thing every time because it is low hanging fruit and doesn’t take much maintenance that real relationships do.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Claire

Claire — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 13:44:43 +0000

I am in a long distance relationship with a wonderful caring guy, accidentally I found out his e-mail password and seen an e-mail from his ex that he is still friends with. From this I have now checked regularly as she is trying to get back with him and they have a friends with benefit thing going on. He always avoids the truth were she is concerned and I have voiced my concerns over their relationship and he said he would cut down on seeing her if it helped. Unfortunately I know that he is planning on hiking with her at the weekend. What should I do, he tells me I am everything to him and he loves me and we have started planning a future together. Should I e-mail her and tell her that she should move on, she had her chance with him? She relies on him far too much as far as I am concerned. I am drained from it all and of course cannot tell him that I know his password (I know this is an unforgivable thing to do). I love him so much and I am planning on moving to be with him. Please help, I’ve lost loads of weight over this.

Comment on DateHookup.com Review (datehookup) by lostabet

lostabet — Thu, 18 Jun 2009 15:32:21 +0000

Site is a scam, even dustin himself has fake profiles on it that he uses to generate hits to the site.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by sotiredofthis

sotiredofthis — Thu, 18 Jun 2009 03:19:16 +0000

My boyfriend is a sneaky person……he lies all the time. About 90% of the stuff that come out of his mouth is a lie. He has cheated with a number of women but lately he is chatting with women online on dating sites and txting them on his phone. I don’t know if he is having sex with these women or just talking dirty to them. I don’t know if he’s even met these women or not. He tells them on the phone that when he gets his car fixed he’ll come see them. They txt all during the morning, “Hey boo…I miss you boo” and he’ll txt back the same. I don’t understand why he’s doing this. Everyday he looks me in the face and says “He loves me, I’m the only one for him, I’m his wife” but when I leave or am out of his sight he’s doing this.

Comment on Hitwise Internet Dating Rankings – 12/08 by Love Guru

Love Guru — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 20:13:18 +0000

They all measure differently and have different mechanisms for sampling. Hitwise seems to be the most relevant as it pulls traffic data from actual ISPs. All three of these sources will be off in the end as they don’t take in account 3rd party affiliate traffic and partnership white label deals in most cases.

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 20:09:38 +0000

Lara – You should have a very serious conversation to understand why he cheated on you so you can make a determination on whether you think it will happen again and if that is the case then you might want to end the relationship for a little while to teach him a lesson. Tell him to put himself in your seat and see how he would feel it you do that to him.

Comment on Plenty of Fish Dating (Plentyoffish.com) by Leni

Leni — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 18:23:46 +0000

I have tried 4 times already to get into your system and I have NOT succeeded. It keeps telling me I need to choose my state in which in reality, it doesn’t say state, but rather Province? and I have to choose something in that field. Very weird. So I do choose the closest province to the United States, but then it deletes me off every time. After spending 20 minutes each of the times creating a profile. Please help!!!

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Lara

Lara — Mon, 08 Jun 2009 01:11:54 +0000

My boyfriend cheated on me and I don’t know what to do, I love him and he loves me. But I don’t know if it’s worthwhile still being with him, when the trust that we had is now broken. I feel like I want to trust him, but I don’t know if I can. Please help me
Lara

Comment on Hitwise Internet Dating Rankings – 12/08 by Dave

Dave — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 18:12:00 +0000

I’m trying to figure out the difference between Hitwise, Nielsen, and ComScore. Do you know why they’re rankings are so different?

Thanks,

Dave

Comment on What Do You Do if Your Lover Cheats on You by Love Guru

Love Guru — Wed, 20 May 2009 08:44:03 +0000

The good part of this story is that she was honest right away and didn’t hide this from you but the bad part is that you guys are left with the reality that she just slept with some guy. If she knew who the guy was then it might be a larger issue but if it was a random person she met in the bar and you are okay with forgiving her then make sure you fully forgive her otherwise this will continue to eat away at your relationship.